"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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serious question about women on the phone

DJnoob

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well, as I have mentioned couple months ago, i made my first white woman friend who i talk on the phone with.

Compared to the way I talk to my guy friends, this chick talks more (about what she's doing, where she went etc etc). It gets to the point where im just there listening. She didnt even ask how things were with me.

Is this how most of your female friends talk to you guys or is this just this particular chick? Jeez.. i feel like my ear drums are gona pop
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SamePendo

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Listening to her flap her gums is NOT neccesary and is very potentially dangerous. Girlfriends listen to each other's day and their shopping and ****. A woman and a man don't, they court each other, so that they can later start getting it on.

In what way is listening to her ****, ON THE TELEPHONE, courting?
 

DJDamage

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SamePendo said:
Listening to her flap her gums is NOT neccesary and is very potentially dangerous. Girlfriends listen to each other's day and their shopping and ****. A woman and a man don't, they court each other, so that they can later start getting it on.
Bingo.

Friendship with this girl will not make you better with women. She sees you as one of her girlfriends. Go find some male friends and go play sport or something, that is normal.

DjDamage
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJnoob

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you guys are right. She is just a friend of mine. (first female friend). But, since i have no experience with female friends on the phone, I was just wondering if thats how they talk on the phone as friends...They talk about whatever, stupid junk they can think of
 
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