"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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serious question about women on the phone

DJnoob

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well, as I have mentioned couple months ago, i made my first white woman friend who i talk on the phone with.

Compared to the way I talk to my guy friends, this chick talks more (about what she's doing, where she went etc etc). It gets to the point where im just there listening. She didnt even ask how things were with me.

Is this how most of your female friends talk to you guys or is this just this particular chick? Jeez.. i feel like my ear drums are gona pop
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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SamePendo

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Listening to her flap her gums is NOT neccesary and is very potentially dangerous. Girlfriends listen to each other's day and their shopping and ****. A woman and a man don't, they court each other, so that they can later start getting it on.

In what way is listening to her ****, ON THE TELEPHONE, courting?
 

DJDamage

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SamePendo said:
Listening to her flap her gums is NOT neccesary and is very potentially dangerous. Girlfriends listen to each other's day and their shopping and ****. A woman and a man don't, they court each other, so that they can later start getting it on.
Bingo.

Friendship with this girl will not make you better with women. She sees you as one of her girlfriends. Go find some male friends and go play sport or something, that is normal.

DjDamage
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJnoob

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you guys are right. She is just a friend of mine. (first female friend). But, since i have no experience with female friends on the phone, I was just wondering if thats how they talk on the phone as friends...They talk about whatever, stupid junk they can think of
 
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