"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This is my first post and my first real problem I've had on pursuing this girl I've had feelings for, for quite a while.

I've had some help from my friends as well as the site; my friends have been giving me info about the girl and all that junk...But my biggest problem is that I've recently found out that one of my best friends has liked her for a while. I don't want to ruin our friendship, but he said that he would keep goin after her, and if I wanted to do the same, he wouldn't stop me. My one question is, should I continue going after her? I've had competition before, but not quite like this. He also told me that if I did go out with her, that he wouldn't get angry with me. In fact, he said he would be happy for both of us. If anybody has any advice, I would definately appreciate it...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Go for it - if your friend DOES get angry, he's not worth keeping. Mates before dates any day, but he's no mate of mine if he's that insecure.

Good luck.
 
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bring it on. take on your mate. let the best DJ win. you should read up on the bible and you will definitely have an advantage over him. however it would be wise that she doesn't find out. play it well.
 
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Originally posted by Sammo
Mates before dates.
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that must me an australian saying "mates". Well, here in A M E R I C A we say, "BROS BEFORE HOES"


Thanks

I love u,
AMERICA (maybe i would love australia if i actually ever been there)
 
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Originally posted by whyshy


I love u,
AMERICA (maybe i would love australia if i actually ever been there)
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Everyone loves oztralia 'mate!'
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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