"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This is my first post and my first real problem I've had on pursuing this girl I've had feelings for, for quite a while.

I've had some help from my friends as well as the site; my friends have been giving me info about the girl and all that junk...But my biggest problem is that I've recently found out that one of my best friends has liked her for a while. I don't want to ruin our friendship, but he said that he would keep goin after her, and if I wanted to do the same, he wouldn't stop me. My one question is, should I continue going after her? I've had competition before, but not quite like this. He also told me that if I did go out with her, that he wouldn't get angry with me. In fact, he said he would be happy for both of us. If anybody has any advice, I would definately appreciate it...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Go for it - if your friend DOES get angry, he's not worth keeping. Mates before dates any day, but he's no mate of mine if he's that insecure.

Good luck.
 
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bring it on. take on your mate. let the best DJ win. you should read up on the bible and you will definitely have an advantage over him. however it would be wise that she doesn't find out. play it well.
 
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Originally posted by Sammo
Mates before dates.
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that must me an australian saying "mates". Well, here in A M E R I C A we say, "BROS BEFORE HOES"


Thanks

I love u,
AMERICA (maybe i would love australia if i actually ever been there)
 
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Originally posted by whyshy


I love u,
AMERICA (maybe i would love australia if i actually ever been there)
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Everyone loves oztralia 'mate!'
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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