OK theres a girl in my 5th period i like and she looks at me. i had her in the same subject last year and we where doing the same thing i ended the year without talking to her and regret it. is there any help i can get maby on what to say any advise i would appreciate, thanks
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Serious Problem Neeedd Heeelllllpppppp
- Thread starter ultamate
- Start date
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Well, think about this first.
What do you want?
If you just want to end up talking to her, then talk to her, quit being such a wuss. What's the worst that can happen? She doesn't want to talk to you, and you quit your staring activity? If staring gives you the hard-on of your day, then I guess you'd suffer a big loss, but otherwise, you have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO LOSE.
If you want more. Date otherwise, then just do it. I'm serious about this. Talk to her, get her number, call her up, ask her on the date, go on the date.
Think about this. If you don't do it, the next jackass with the balls to do it will do it and end up going on a date with her. And you'll never know.
The worst that can happen is rejection. But rejection is your freedom. It lets you know the truth, it helps you not waste time, it gets you on with your life. If you want to know the truth, the only risk is rejection. But rejection isn't the worst thing that could happen to you. She could pull the 9 from her back pocket and shoot you up. Don't lose your chance because you were too scared to do something.
I hate the pansy sayings, but it is true. It is better to do something and fail than regret not doing it and wondering if you ever would have suceeded.
Besides, if you can't even muster up the courage to talk to her, where do you place yourself at on the manliness scale? No where where she could actually respect you. I'm sorry, eye contact doesn't get you the girl. Getting the girl gets you the girl. Get up and do what you need to do. Just by doing that puts you at a level above most guys out there. Do it for you. Not for her or anyone else.
What do you want?
If you just want to end up talking to her, then talk to her, quit being such a wuss. What's the worst that can happen? She doesn't want to talk to you, and you quit your staring activity? If staring gives you the hard-on of your day, then I guess you'd suffer a big loss, but otherwise, you have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO LOSE.
If you want more. Date otherwise, then just do it. I'm serious about this. Talk to her, get her number, call her up, ask her on the date, go on the date.
Think about this. If you don't do it, the next jackass with the balls to do it will do it and end up going on a date with her. And you'll never know.
The worst that can happen is rejection. But rejection is your freedom. It lets you know the truth, it helps you not waste time, it gets you on with your life. If you want to know the truth, the only risk is rejection. But rejection isn't the worst thing that could happen to you. She could pull the 9 from her back pocket and shoot you up. Don't lose your chance because you were too scared to do something.
I hate the pansy sayings, but it is true. It is better to do something and fail than regret not doing it and wondering if you ever would have suceeded.
Besides, if you can't even muster up the courage to talk to her, where do you place yourself at on the manliness scale? No where where she could actually respect you. I'm sorry, eye contact doesn't get you the girl. Getting the girl gets you the girl. Get up and do what you need to do. Just by doing that puts you at a level above most guys out there. Do it for you. Not for her or anyone else.
If you're to scared to approach then this post will probably help alot
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=20096
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=20096
Sterling the Runner
Don Juan
I did the same thing before and I have found that the best solution is to JUST GO TALK TO HER! The best way to start a convo with her is to talk about the class ask her Qs about it, Do u find this class interesting? What do u think of the teacher? Make fun of the teacher too if u can. Also i have found that it is MUCH BETTER to talk to a girl u have something in common with right away, u guys have a class together, ther u go! Go do it!
DiSt0rTi0n_07
Don Juan
Use a little C+F
You: "omg"
Her: "what?"
You: "You've been staring at my @$$ all last year and you continue to stare this year without as much as saying Hello!"
-->She begins to blush<--
You: "I tell ya, you are losing your chances with me"--David D.
-->Wait for her to look a little surprised at what you are saying and calmly say:
"I suppose I could let you make it up to me and buy me lunch tomorrow."
You: "omg"
Her: "what?"
You: "You've been staring at my @$$ all last year and you continue to stare this year without as much as saying Hello!"
-->She begins to blush<--
You: "I tell ya, you are losing your chances with me"--David D.
-->Wait for her to look a little surprised at what you are saying and calmly say:
"I suppose I could let you make it up to me and buy me lunch tomorrow."
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Best friends? NAY
Senior Don Juan
Hi My name is ultamate *shake hand*, small talk, say soemthing about the atmosphere you'r in.. get the number. Something like that if you are tryin to hook up.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
Have you read anything on this sight?