OK theres a girl in my 5th period i like and she looks at me. i had her in the same subject last year and we where doing the same thing i ended the year without talking to her and regret it. is there any help i can get maby on what to say any advise i would appreciate, thanks
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Well, think about this first.
What do you want?
If you just want to end up talking to her, then talk to her, quit being such a wuss. What's the worst that can happen? She doesn't want to talk to you, and you quit your staring activity? If staring gives you the hard-on of your day, then I guess you'd suffer a big loss, but otherwise, you have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO LOSE.
If you want more. Date otherwise, then just do it. I'm serious about this. Talk to her, get her number, call her up, ask her on the date, go on the date.
Think about this. If you don't do it, the next jackass with the balls to do it will do it and end up going on a date with her. And you'll never know.
The worst that can happen is rejection. But rejection is your freedom. It lets you know the truth, it helps you not waste time, it gets you on with your life. If you want to know the truth, the only risk is rejection. But rejection isn't the worst thing that could happen to you. She could pull the 9 from her back pocket and shoot you up. Don't lose your chance because you were too scared to do something.
I hate the pansy sayings, but it is true. It is better to do something and fail than regret not doing it and wondering if you ever would have suceeded.
Besides, if you can't even muster up the courage to talk to her, where do you place yourself at on the manliness scale? No where where she could actually respect you. I'm sorry, eye contact doesn't get you the girl. Getting the girl gets you the girl. Get up and do what you need to do. Just by doing that puts you at a level above most guys out there. Do it for you. Not for her or anyone else.
What do you want?
If you just want to end up talking to her, then talk to her, quit being such a wuss. What's the worst that can happen? She doesn't want to talk to you, and you quit your staring activity? If staring gives you the hard-on of your day, then I guess you'd suffer a big loss, but otherwise, you have ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO LOSE.
If you want more. Date otherwise, then just do it. I'm serious about this. Talk to her, get her number, call her up, ask her on the date, go on the date.
Think about this. If you don't do it, the next jackass with the balls to do it will do it and end up going on a date with her. And you'll never know.
The worst that can happen is rejection. But rejection is your freedom. It lets you know the truth, it helps you not waste time, it gets you on with your life. If you want to know the truth, the only risk is rejection. But rejection isn't the worst thing that could happen to you. She could pull the 9 from her back pocket and shoot you up. Don't lose your chance because you were too scared to do something.
I hate the pansy sayings, but it is true. It is better to do something and fail than regret not doing it and wondering if you ever would have suceeded.
Besides, if you can't even muster up the courage to talk to her, where do you place yourself at on the manliness scale? No where where she could actually respect you. I'm sorry, eye contact doesn't get you the girl. Getting the girl gets you the girl. Get up and do what you need to do. Just by doing that puts you at a level above most guys out there. Do it for you. Not for her or anyone else.
If you're to scared to approach then this post will probably help alot
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=20096
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=20096
Sterling the Runner
Don Juan
I did the same thing before and I have found that the best solution is to JUST GO TALK TO HER! The best way to start a convo with her is to talk about the class ask her Qs about it, Do u find this class interesting? What do u think of the teacher? Make fun of the teacher too if u can. Also i have found that it is MUCH BETTER to talk to a girl u have something in common with right away, u guys have a class together, ther u go! Go do it!
DiSt0rTi0n_07
Don Juan
Use a little C+F
You: "omg"
Her: "what?"
You: "You've been staring at my @$$ all last year and you continue to stare this year without as much as saying Hello!"
-->She begins to blush<--
You: "I tell ya, you are losing your chances with me"--David D.
-->Wait for her to look a little surprised at what you are saying and calmly say:
"I suppose I could let you make it up to me and buy me lunch tomorrow."
You: "omg"
Her: "what?"
You: "You've been staring at my @$$ all last year and you continue to stare this year without as much as saying Hello!"
-->She begins to blush<--
You: "I tell ya, you are losing your chances with me"--David D.
-->Wait for her to look a little surprised at what you are saying and calmly say:
"I suppose I could let you make it up to me and buy me lunch tomorrow."
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Best friends? NAY
Senior Don Juan
Hi My name is ultamate *shake hand*, small talk, say soemthing about the atmosphere you'r in.. get the number. Something like that if you are tryin to hook up.
WaRpEd
Senior Don Juan
Have you read anything on this sight?