“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Serious Poll Question About Moderators

Which Statement Best Supports Your Opinion?

  • Moderators should be nice to all posters, and should not post anything insulting, even if it's funny

    Votes: 15 29.4%
  • Moderators are just posters who happen to enforce some of the site's rules. I enjoy some of their j

    Votes: 36 70.6%

  • Total voters
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Giovanni Casanova

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Here is your one chance to really let your voice be heard.

There have been a lot of complaints in the Suggestions and Feedback forum that moderators are "disrespectful", "mean", "Nazi/fascists", "hypocritical", et cetera. Apparently a lot of people are dissatisfied with some of their friendly neighborhood moderators.

In an effort to appease some of these people, I have toned down some of my bantering with other moderators and posters, and reduced the frequency of quips and one-liners on threads. This has resulted in receiving (more private) complaints that the joking and entertainment that some enjoy has subsided recently.

So this poll is basically to see which camp you fall into, and to see where the majority opinion lies on this one.




*** NOTE: This thread isn't for flaming other posters. If you must flame someone, flame me. Other flames will be deleted by uber-Nazi poster Eternal or one of the other mods. ***
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I will also keep an eye on this post. If I see any cheating going on with the voting like there was in the fantizmu thread. If I see that going on, the poll will be back to "zero" on both sides. If it happens again, thread closed.

I think you know which side I am on Gio, I'm just saving my vote.
 

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Vote now, let your voice be heard!

Though I'm doubting we'll have even a 60% voter turnout for this poll...
 

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I don't have a problem with the joking at all. In fact, I laugh at most of the jokes (Eternal's excluded, of course :D ) However, I am dissappointed with how the moderators act at times when they are doing their "jobs" as moderators or just being *******s. Jokes are one thing, plain disrespect and idiocy is another.
 

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Originally posted by NYC Dude
I don't have a problem with the joking at all. In fact, I laugh at most of the jokes (Eternal's excluded, of course :D ) However, I am dissappointed with how the moderators act at times when they are doing their "jobs" as moderators or just being *******s. Jokes are one thing, plain disrespect and idiocy is another.
Fair enough dude.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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perhaps i didnt make myself clear...

i will quit this forum if it turns into a lame hole in the wall cyber bar for the weak and the dumped....
 

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Originally posted by penkitten
perhaps i didnt make myself clear...

i will quit this forum if it turns into a lame hole in the wall cyber bar for the weak and the dumped....
Point taken.
 

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So...How long is this open for?
 

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Originally posted by Eternal
So...How long is this open for?
A couple days... just to get a snapshot of how public opinion is.
 

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Originally posted by Giovanni Casanova
A couple days... just to get a snapshot of how public opinion is.
Sounds fair.

*Note: Poll open until Noon Eastern Friday, unless I am..Ahem, occupied.*
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I really don't give a sh1t. Gio and Vincent crack me up sometimes.
 

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Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
I really don't give a sh1t. Gio and Vincent crack me up sometimes.
:p

You get a cookie.
 

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The fascism comment has nothing to do with your comments. I think they're hilarious and I've never said otherwise.
 

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Originally posted by TyTe`EyEs
I really don't give a sh1t. Gio and Vincent crack me up sometimes.
*Feels left out.* :(
 

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Originally posted by MsThang
The fascism comment has nothing to do with your comments. I think they're hilarious and I've never said otherwise.
I know. I wasn't referring specifically to you.
 
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This would be my first post but I've been reading some of the post on this message board.

I infrequently see moderators being nice - so that poll must have been made out of sarcasm ;)

I personally perfer the jokes and insults. Regaurdless who they are made to they are only jokes made for pure entertainment. :rolleyes:

lighten up folks!
 
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i think theres nothing wrong with it, the problem is that those who do not like it, decide to fight back and thats when it gets out of hand.
 

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You posted this wrong. How many moderators do i have a problem with? Answer :2

How many moderators interfere and generally think they are better than everyone else? Answer : 2. go figure.
 

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Originally posted by WesCottII
You posted this wrong. How many moderators do i have a problem with? Answer :2

How many moderators interfere and generally think they are better than everyone else? Answer : 2. go figure.
Oh just answer choice number 1 and move on. :D
 

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What happens if you "win"?
 
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