"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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redspicyflag

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I don't post in hs forum but...

I can connect easily with ppl I don't know. Random people and whatnot.

But with classmates, people I've known forever, game doesn't work.

It's just strange. Sure, I've been more popular since I've found this site, but with ppl I know it just doesn't click.

wtf

frustrating really
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KontrollerX

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The people you know are psychologically stuck with who you were.

Only a lot of distance and time as in years and then you re-aquainting with them can even begin to change their perception of you.

Not really much a problem though since you are succeeding vastly with new people.
 
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