"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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redspicyflag

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I don't post in hs forum but...

I can connect easily with ppl I don't know. Random people and whatnot.

But with classmates, people I've known forever, game doesn't work.

It's just strange. Sure, I've been more popular since I've found this site, but with ppl I know it just doesn't click.

wtf

frustrating really
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The people you know are psychologically stuck with who you were.

Only a lot of distance and time as in years and then you re-aquainting with them can even begin to change their perception of you.

Not really much a problem though since you are succeeding vastly with new people.
 
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