“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Tao of Steve

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others have already mentioned this b4, but i think a new section, devoted to members say over 30, or over 25, or some such age would be good. it seems many member are in their teens and early 20's, and i think there is enough difference for guys who are in their late 20's, 30's and 40's etc. that there are some subtle distinctions to be made in dj ing. do others agree?

what do the moderators think?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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There used to be a forum for older DJ's. It wasn't popular so it was discontinued.

The High School forum was created though to address the younger DJ's.

Topic moved to Suggestions forum
 

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Actually, bringing back the "Mature Man" forum may not be a bad idea. A few years ago there were only a few hundred active posters, and even fewer were over the age of 25. So I understand fully why it was discontinued.

But nowadays, active posters number in the thousands. Because of this big increase, there just might be enough posters to support a "Mature Man" forum this time around.

At least its something for Allen and the mods to look into.
 

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no no no

the're should be a forum for Relationships and another for dating/approachs.

GHOST
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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-HPNOTIQ-

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I'm all for a 25 and older section.

It's hard to relate to the DJ's out there in their teens and early twenties when the same discussion about college dorm room chics, meeting girls during frosh week, taking a girl home to mom's house, etc. keep comming up.

The mature DJ has different aspects of his life that make women a challenge: balancing a career and women, dating younger women, kids, divorce, etc.

It would be nice to have a forum section where advice to these topics are more 'user friendly' and easier to find.
 

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yah this would be great, under the general discussion rules (Discuss meeting, dating, and attracting women with others. Ask a question or give advice.) you could add: also NLP - based discussion, not that ive anything against the unusual techniques forum but it seems to be struggling at the moment.
then you could replace the unusual techniques with an older members forum and see how that goes. ( that would only be if you want all your discussion forums busy, i dont know how it works)
just a thought anyway.
 

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Here, here.

Maybe 30+ "Mature Man" is a little far. A 25+ "After College" forum would be of benefit to a lot of people though. It's a different game post-BBA.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by NMMWCR
Here, here.

Maybe 30+ "Mature Man" is a little far. A 25+ "After College" forum would be of benefit to a lot of people though. It's a different game post-BBA.
30+???!!! "Mature Man???!!!" What are you guys trying to say? Just because we're in our "Dirty 30's" or better, doesn't mean that we're a little far! WE CAN STILL HERE YOU Y'KNOW, WE AIN'T DEEF!!!!

Sorry, senility occasionally seeps through when I forget to take my meds... ;)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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