Seperate from the other guys.

[AfRoSwiss-Disiac]

I believe it's spelled "an attractive...":yes:

Thanks you know since the whole point of this forum is to collect peoples english

 

[The Deacon]

David DeAngelo is pretty much 95% salesman, but he was right when he said attraction isn't a choice. However, I definitely do have to agree with the social proof theory. If you're in her circle of friends and you share similar interests, you'd have a much easier time having a bf/gf relationship. If you just want to have a random hook-up, well, you don't really have to worry so much about having anything in common. Random hook-ups just thrive on physical attraction.

When you try to have a bf/gf relationship with a girl who has no similar interests, you end up getting the fish and the bird problem, and the odds will be stacked against you like a motherf*cker. I'd suggest pursuing interests that hot girls are interested in, like dancing or surfing. Depends on what kind of girl you're attracted to. If you're not attracted to nerdy girls, don't start playing video games. You probably get the idea.

Anyway, if you don't have much in common with this girl, you'll have a tough time getting the status of being her boyfriend. However, if she's attracted to you, you can probably score a random hook-up if you play the cards right.

 

[Crazy Asian]

aight i got it.
i was just thinking a little too much since it was the day before school started up again.
things are good now.
my head is focused.

and i just said i can lift more/smarter.... just to say that i know i am awesome, and that i am worth a lot.

but i'm actually getting slower in swimming
i don't know how...

 

[Evolution]

It all comes down to one thing:



Attitude.

 

[Crazy Asian]

"It's not about looking hot for some skinny 100pds blonde in a bar. Dressing well, being well groomed and working out is all about respecting yourself.

You have to look like a person that is going somewhere in life."

Agreed. Self-respect is something you want to have anyway, regardless of women. But if you want a ONS with the 100pd blonde at the bar, being a well-groomed average to below average looking guy with self-respect isn't going to get you laid, unless you happen to be "her type" physically.

yeah i get wut ur saying.

+ btw how much are gucci/armani suits?
and do they really look that nice?

 

[nismo-4]

here is how you do it:

Ask yourself WHY would any woman want to date you?

The next step is to stand out from the crowd.

Take all your tennis shoes and jeans and burn them.

Watch Oceans 11. That's how you will dress from now on.

If you want to get the hottest chicks having a body that is in top shape is a must. By that I mean six pack abs etc.

Get a haircut that makes you look cool and masculine and try growing facial hair if it suits you.

I hate to say it, but unless you have achieved the above mentioned you have to take what you can get for now.

Nomatter what you say or do. If she doesn't think you are sexually attractive to her she will never sleep with you. Ever.

The whole process will take 1 or more years, but it's worth it.

Or if you got the cash, it'll take about 1 or more WEEKS! That means plastic surgery, a new wardrobe, The lux car, the whole nine yards.

Also there's not so hot guys who pull chicks who can be 12's!!! Without any of this stuff! I'm talkin dudes who appear dimwitted like Beavis & Butt-Head!

 

[DJVladdy]

yea, from time to time you do see hot chicks with low-lives and losers. Anybody can get lucky you know...

 

[Mad Manic]

Every hot girl has multiple guys after her.
How do I separate myself from those other guys?
How do I appear better than them?

First of all, i know that i'm better than them. I have a lot more going on in my life than they do. I can lift more, i'm smarter, and I have more skills. I know this question is something that I can answer myself, but i just need some reassurance.

Just what are things that won't make me seem like any other guy?
thanks.

By actually being better than them. So you're gonna have to flash the cash or look like Kevin Levrone. Your choice.

MM

 

[MooseGod]

Sadly most girls today are pretty materialistic. Doesn't matter though, if you appeal to all the romantic cheesy crap they watch in chick flicks about 'love over money.' You've just got to be the guy with balls, the wolf in sheep's clothing. If you have the right attitude, at first women might give you the evil eye and think "Who the hell does this guy think he is?" But if you don't let anything get to your head, you'll be leaps and bounds ahead of the competition.

 

[achtungiono]

I can lift more, i'm smarter, and I have more skills.

Nah, now you just appear like a conceited ass.

 

[Mad Manic]

Nah, now you just appear like a conceited ass.

I think it's because he's delusional about the first point and women don't like the last two points.

MM