Ok here is how this whole cluster boiled down i end up getting a number from a chick about 2 weeks ago, Tall 5ft10 blonde hair athletic body only thing i dont like is her nose. We hang out this week and i f closed the second time hanging with her. However that night when hanging with her she informed me A) her and her fiance just broke up, B) shes ready for marriage, C) she loves hanging out with me, D) she was talking to some of my female friends and let them know how excited she is to be with me.. Now these things are all well and good for alot of guys but for me i always tend to get skittish the second a girl gets serious... My problem is i have dropped the nice guy image on every aspect of getting a chick, however when it comes to laying down the law and possibly hurting a chicks feelings that ive been with i have a hard time. How do you guys pull this off?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Its only 2 weeks. What do you want to lay the law down about? She is just spitting out some emotional stuff - it doesn't mean anything.
She isn't asking you to marry her. She is just acting a bit like an AFC woman - not surprising since she is coming out of an engagement.
Just have fun.
She isn't asking you to marry her. She is just acting a bit like an AFC woman - not surprising since she is coming out of an engagement.
Just have fun.
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
Since all the guys on here are trying to get women, and some have never ever had one, many won't be able to relate to this kinda problem.
Speaking from experience with this kinda situation, I'd say be 100% honest. After you tell her what's on your mind, everything she does to make things worse will be her fault. Explain to her that you'r not ready to go so fast and that you should chill out.
You should feel good that a hot girl thinks enough of you to want to get serious, but the simple fact that she JUST broke up with her fiance is a definite red flag, and you should get out of this ASAP. Wouldn't you think a normal girl would be pretty upset and need alot of time before she was ready to get back into something serious? She's really rushing into this and it seems like she just wants to get married, and doesn't care to whom.
Speaking from experience with this kinda situation, I'd say be 100% honest. After you tell her what's on your mind, everything she does to make things worse will be her fault. Explain to her that you'r not ready to go so fast and that you should chill out.
You should feel good that a hot girl thinks enough of you to want to get serious, but the simple fact that she JUST broke up with her fiance is a definite red flag, and you should get out of this ASAP. Wouldn't you think a normal girl would be pretty upset and need alot of time before she was ready to get back into something serious? She's really rushing into this and it seems like she just wants to get married, and doesn't care to whom.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
deuce bigalo
i sent this to one of the other Don Juans on PM
maybe it will help you : COPY + PASTE
last week i went and stayed at this chicks house ( HB7 20 years old ). i had nowhere to stay and was too tired to drive home ( another city )
i had sex with her only cause i felt like i owed her ( for accomodation ) ( i was too tired to want sex lol )
LOL yeah i prostituted my body....
i felt like crap afterwards but you get that LOL
anyways i thought this b*tch was cool
she just a booty call chick never give me no drama before
i am laying there next to her and she starts telling me all this crap
1. she sees dead people
2. her auntie is a psychic and fought 200 witches
3. she had been seeing her ex
4. her brother was home
5. her brother works with her ex
6. her brother would be awake in 45 minutes
7. my car is parked out front
8. her ex f*cked all these chicks
9. she is looking for a relationship with me
i sit up in bed....
i blink cause i think i must be dreaming....
as tired as i am i get dressed and leave using the excuse i didn't want her brother to see my car
now this h0 sending me all these crazy text messages LOL
i never reply
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like flexion said they get all geared up for marriage
then they get dumped
their brain is still in SEEK AND DESTROY mode
ie. get married mode LOL
i know where my chick is headed
she is looking at me like i am MR REPLACEMENT for her ex
and you wanna know what this chick said to me
sent chills down my spine
and i was tired before but after she said this I WAS WIDE A F*CKING WAKE
she said : "blah blah blah ovaries"
me : "play the tape back say what?"
she says : "blah blah blah must have kids soon cist on ovaries doctors orders"
1. alot of doctors a full of $hit
2. medicine is sure as hell not an exact science
but b*tches live and die by other peoples opinions
YES THIS CHICK WAS SAYING IN ******** I AM HOPING TO FALL PREGNANT SOON CAUSE DOCTOR "thinks" THAT I "might" HAVE BLAH BLAH "but they not sure" BUT I BETTER HAVE KIDS SOON JUST INCASE
AND I AM LOOKING FOR A SUCKER TO SUPPORT MY DOCTORS FALSE DIAGNOSIS
BY GETTING ME PREGNANT WHEN I LIE AND SAY I AM ON THE PILL WHEN I AM NOT AND PAY CHILD SUPPORT FOR 18 YEARS
she was removed from the roster of my stable of women
i will arrange a hotel room if i am in the city overnight
i will not prostitute my body for accomodation again
deuce bigalo male gigalo or not
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
i sent this to one of the other Don Juans on PM
maybe it will help you : COPY + PASTE
last week i went and stayed at this chicks house ( HB7 20 years old ). i had nowhere to stay and was too tired to drive home ( another city )
i had sex with her only cause i felt like i owed her ( for accomodation ) ( i was too tired to want sex lol )
LOL yeah i prostituted my body....
i felt like crap afterwards but you get that LOL
anyways i thought this b*tch was cool
she just a booty call chick never give me no drama before
i am laying there next to her and she starts telling me all this crap
1. she sees dead people
2. her auntie is a psychic and fought 200 witches
3. she had been seeing her ex
4. her brother was home
5. her brother works with her ex
6. her brother would be awake in 45 minutes
7. my car is parked out front
8. her ex f*cked all these chicks
9. she is looking for a relationship with me
i sit up in bed....
i blink cause i think i must be dreaming....
as tired as i am i get dressed and leave using the excuse i didn't want her brother to see my car
now this h0 sending me all these crazy text messages LOL
i never reply
**************************************************
like flexion said they get all geared up for marriage
then they get dumped
their brain is still in SEEK AND DESTROY mode
ie. get married mode LOL
i know where my chick is headed
she is looking at me like i am MR REPLACEMENT for her ex
and you wanna know what this chick said to me
sent chills down my spine
and i was tired before but after she said this I WAS WIDE A F*CKING WAKE
she said : "blah blah blah ovaries"
me : "play the tape back say what?"
she says : "blah blah blah must have kids soon cist on ovaries doctors orders"
1. alot of doctors a full of $hit
2. medicine is sure as hell not an exact science
but b*tches live and die by other peoples opinions
YES THIS CHICK WAS SAYING IN ******** I AM HOPING TO FALL PREGNANT SOON CAUSE DOCTOR "thinks" THAT I "might" HAVE BLAH BLAH "but they not sure" BUT I BETTER HAVE KIDS SOON JUST INCASE
AND I AM LOOKING FOR A SUCKER TO SUPPORT MY DOCTORS FALSE DIAGNOSIS
BY GETTING ME PREGNANT WHEN I LIE AND SAY I AM ON THE PILL WHEN I AM NOT AND PAY CHILD SUPPORT FOR 18 YEARS
she was removed from the roster of my stable of women
i will arrange a hotel room if i am in the city overnight
i will not prostitute my body for accomodation again
deuce bigalo male gigalo or not
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
Good god Lost.... That post just freaked me out even more.. But i do find it true with alot of chicks. Deep down they are all very very screwed up. Once you start getting to them on an emotional level you can see how messed up they are. Its very rare to find a 100 percent stable one... The last LTR i was in was with an awesome chick a D1 softball player, right of the bat she said she didnt want to smother me... I thought it was great but eventually she became crazy as they all do.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Listen to TheBadAss, expecially paragraph 3. Gigantic bleeding sirens should go off when she tells you she recently broke up with her fiance and then follows with how much she loves being with you. I've dated several of these woman and yes, they were all borderline nut jobs. These are people that can NEVER be alone. If you look at her history I'll bet she has never been alone for an extended period of time.
Lost In Translation
Master Don Juan
heater528
Good god Lost.... That post just freaked me out even more..
:crackup:
dude you try being the one in bed
TRYING TO GO TO SLEEP
and she starts telling you about seeing dead people in the house
you wanna know the craziest thing. out of all my booty call chicks i thought she was the decent one
before that night she had NEVER EVER acted or spoken like a fruit loop
and like the other Don Juans said it was all because she broke up with her long time ex boyfriend
MADE INSANE
LOCO
Dingus
These are people that can NEVER be alone. If you look at her history I'll bet she has never been alone for an extended period of time.
so true
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
Good god Lost.... That post just freaked me out even more..
:crackup:
dude you try being the one in bed
TRYING TO GO TO SLEEP
and she starts telling you about seeing dead people in the house
you wanna know the craziest thing. out of all my booty call chicks i thought she was the decent one
before that night she had NEVER EVER acted or spoken like a fruit loop
and like the other Don Juans said it was all because she broke up with her long time ex boyfriend
MADE INSANE
LOCO
Dingus
These are people that can NEVER be alone. If you look at her history I'll bet she has never been alone for an extended period of time.
so true
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
The Bad Ass Canadian
Master Don Juan
:crackup:Originally posted by Lost In Translation
heater528
Good god Lost.... That post just freaked me out even more..
:crackup:
dude you try being the one in bed
TRYING TO GO TO SLEEP
and she starts telling you about seeing dead people in the house
you wanna know the craziest thing. out of all my booty call chicks i thought she was the decent one
before that night she had NEVER EVER acted or spoken like a fruit loop
and like the other Don Juans said it was all because she broke up with her long time ex boyfriend
MADE INSANE
LOCO
Dingus
These are people that can NEVER be alone. If you look at her history I'll bet she has never been alone for an extended period of time.
so true
Lost In Translation
**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation
Wow LIT, that is some insane sh!t, right there.
LIT... how the hell did you not laugh ? If some girl would have started saying i see dead people i would have assumed she was joking and started to bust on her. This chick has yet to say complete insane **** yet... but i always sense insanity in the girl when she tells me her life story the first time we hang out. I think in your case i would have done exactly the same thing, sat up in bed prolly pale as a ghost and jumped out the window, even if it wasnt open. Oh yeah and whats with chicks and text messaging... I have about 80 fing text messages from her and another chick.. I cannnnnot sit there and manipulate little buttons on my cell phone for hours at a time...thats another sign in my book that a chick is crazy.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.