Sent me running

[heater528]

Ok here is how this whole cluster boiled down i end up getting a number from a chick about 2 weeks ago, Tall 5ft10 blonde hair athletic body only thing i dont like is her nose. We hang out this week and i f closed the second time hanging with her. However that night when hanging with her she informed me A) her and her fiance just broke up, B) shes ready for marriage, C) she loves hanging out with me, D) she was talking to some of my female friends and let them know how excited she is to be with me.. Now these things are all well and good for alot of guys but for me i always tend to get skittish the second a girl gets serious... My problem is i have dropped the nice guy image on every aspect of getting a chick, however when it comes to laying down the law and possibly hurting a chicks feelings that ive been with i have a hard time. How do you guys pull this off?

 

[flexion_]

Its only 2 weeks. What do you want to lay the law down about? She is just spitting out some emotional stuff - it doesn't mean anything.

She isn't asking you to marry her. She is just acting a bit like an AFC woman - not surprising since she is coming out of an engagement.

Just have fun.

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Since all the guys on here are trying to get women, and some have never ever had one, many won't be able to relate to this kinda problem.

Speaking from experience with this kinda situation, I'd say be 100% honest. After you tell her what's on your mind, everything she does to make things worse will be her fault. Explain to her that you'r not ready to go so fast and that you should chill out.

You should feel good that a hot girl thinks enough of you to want to get serious, but the simple fact that she JUST broke up with her fiance is a definite red flag, and you should get out of this ASAP. Wouldn't you think a normal girl would be pretty upset and need alot of time before she was ready to get back into something serious? She's really rushing into this and it seems like she just wants to get married, and doesn't care to whom.

 

[Lost In Translation]

deuce bigalo

i sent this to one of the other Don Juans on PM

maybe it will help you : COPY + PASTE

last week i went and stayed at this chicks house ( HB7 20 years old ). i had nowhere to stay and was too tired to drive home ( another city )

i had sex with her only cause i felt like i owed her ( for accomodation ) ( i was too tired to want sex lol )

LOL yeah i prostituted my body....

i felt like crap afterwards but you get that LOL

anyways i thought this b*tch was cool

she just a booty call chick never give me no drama before

i am laying there next to her and she starts telling me all this crap

1. she sees dead people
2. her auntie is a psychic and fought 200 witches
3. she had been seeing her ex
4. her brother was home
5. her brother works with her ex
6. her brother would be awake in 45 minutes
7. my car is parked out front
8. her ex f*cked all these chicks
9. she is looking for a relationship with me

i sit up in bed....

i blink cause i think i must be dreaming....

as tired as i am i get dressed and leave using the excuse i didn't want her brother to see my car

now this h0 sending me all these crazy text messages LOL

i never reply
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like flexion said they get all geared up for marriage

then they get dumped

their brain is still in SEEK AND DESTROY mode

ie. get married mode LOL


i know where my chick is headed

she is looking at me like i am MR REPLACEMENT for her ex

and you wanna know what this chick said to me

sent chills down my spine

and i was tired before but after she said this I WAS WIDE A F*CKING WAKE

she said : "blah blah blah ovaries"

me : "play the tape back say what?"

she says : "blah blah blah must have kids soon cist on ovaries doctors orders"

1. alot of doctors a full of $hit
2. medicine is sure as hell not an exact science

but b*tches live and die by other peoples opinions

YES THIS CHICK WAS SAYING IN ******** I AM HOPING TO FALL PREGNANT SOON CAUSE DOCTOR "thinks" THAT I "might" HAVE BLAH BLAH "but they not sure" BUT I BETTER HAVE KIDS SOON JUST INCASE

AND I AM LOOKING FOR A SUCKER TO SUPPORT MY DOCTORS FALSE DIAGNOSIS

BY GETTING ME PREGNANT WHEN I LIE AND SAY I AM ON THE PILL WHEN I AM NOT AND PAY CHILD SUPPORT FOR 18 YEARS

she was removed from the roster of my stable of women

i will arrange a hotel room if i am in the city overnight

i will not prostitute my body for accomodation again

deuce bigalo male gigalo or not


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation

 

[heater528]

Good god Lost.... That post just freaked me out even more.. But i do find it true with alot of chicks. Deep down they are all very very screwed up. Once you start getting to them on an emotional level you can see how messed up they are. Its very rare to find a 100 percent stable one... The last LTR i was in was with an awesome chick a D1 softball player, right of the bat she said she didnt want to smother me... I thought it was great but eventually she became crazy as they all do.

 

[Dingus]

Listen to TheBadAss, expecially paragraph 3. Gigantic bleeding sirens should go off when she tells you she recently broke up with her fiance and then follows with how much she loves being with you. I've dated several of these woman and yes, they were all borderline nut jobs. These are people that can NEVER be alone. If you look at her history I'll bet she has never been alone for an extended period of time.

 

[Lost In Translation]

heater528
Good god Lost.... That post just freaked me out even more..

:crackup:

dude you try being the one in bed

TRYING TO GO TO SLEEP

and she starts telling you about seeing dead people in the house


you wanna know the craziest thing. out of all my booty call chicks i thought she was the decent one

before that night she had NEVER EVER acted or spoken like a fruit loop

and like the other Don Juans said it was all because she broke up with her long time ex boyfriend

MADE INSANE

LOCO

Dingus
These are people that can NEVER be alone. If you look at her history I'll bet she has never been alone for an extended period of time.

so true


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation

 

[The Bad Ass Canadian]

Originally posted by Lost In Translation
heater528
Good god Lost.... That post just freaked me out even more..

:crackup:

dude you try being the one in bed

TRYING TO GO TO SLEEP

and she starts telling you about seeing dead people in the house


you wanna know the craziest thing. out of all my booty call chicks i thought she was the decent one

before that night she had NEVER EVER acted or spoken like a fruit loop

and like the other Don Juans said it was all because she broke up with her long time ex boyfriend

MADE INSANE

LOCO

Dingus
These are people that can NEVER be alone. If you look at her history I'll bet she has never been alone for an extended period of time.

so true


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

" stop being insecure " i hate that saying. it's a cop out for not having enough balls to confront a woman about what she is doing THAT IS WRONG or potentially damaging to a long term relationship. – Lost In Translation

:crackup:

Wow LIT, that is some insane sh!t, right there.

 

[heater528]

LIT... how the hell did you not laugh ? If some girl would have started saying i see dead people i would have assumed she was joking and started to bust on her. This chick has yet to say complete insane **** yet... but i always sense insanity in the girl when she tells me her life story the first time we hang out. I think in your case i would have done exactly the same thing, sat up in bed prolly pale as a ghost and jumped out the window, even if it wasnt open. Oh yeah and whats with chicks and text messaging... I have about 80 fing text messages from her and another chick.. I cannnnnot sit there and manipulate little buttons on my cell phone for hours at a time...thats another sign in my book that a chick is crazy.

 

[flexion_]

Those are called psychotic episodes. They think people are looking at them from above. There is no good personality disorder associated with this - only very very bad ones.

Run forest... run.