"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sent me a text while I was at work

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I dated this girl for a little while close to two months ago. I Haven't really bothered talking to this girl since I know she is dating another fella. I'm not sure how serious she is about the guy, but I haven't bothered calling her for the past 2 weeks. She has continued texting me though, but not as frequently as before, maybe once/twice a week. I usually give her bland responses and take my sweet time to respond.

I used to call her, but have stopped that and I think she is missing my attention. I feel like asking her out again.

She just sent me this text, while I am here at the office:

"howdy BigKuta. Just decided to say hi while I'm sitting here. Dude I need a tissue, my nose is runny cuz I have a little cold. Lol anyways I hope your school is going well!"

I don't really like texting since it feels impersonal, but I shot her this reply anyways

"hey, good to hear from you. My brother flys in today, so I get to leave the office early to go pick him up :). Hope all is well with you. I'll call you sometime, haven't talked in a while"

Now the question..Should I even bother calling her? Leave her hanging for a bit? Or just call her once I am out of the office?

DJ bros let me know how to proceed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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So,are you interested in this girl,or do you just want to keep her as a friend?
Because this really doesn't seem to be that hard of a situation. If you want to be just friends,then keep doing what you've been doing. However,if you want to date this girl,you simply need to ask her out. Pretty simple really.
 
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Igetit! said:
So,are you interested in this girl,or do you just want to keep her as a friend?
Because this really doesn't seem to be that hard of a situation. If you want to be just friends,then keep doing what you've been doing. However,if you want to date this girl,you simply need to ask her out. Pretty simple really.
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Trying to get with her, or get some action at least haha
 
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Well since your tryin to get with her, never pass up opportunities. Give her a call whenever you feel like it. Make some small talk. Tell her you want to go out on (blank) day and what you plan on doing. If she says no she's dating that other feller, then you know to move on. If she accepts your invitation to the pants party, then you got a chance!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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