Sent me a text while I was at work

[BigKuta]

I dated this girl for a little while close to two months ago. I Haven't really bothered talking to this girl since I know she is dating another fella. I'm not sure how serious she is about the guy, but I haven't bothered calling her for the past 2 weeks. She has continued texting me though, but not as frequently as before, maybe once/twice a week. I usually give her bland responses and take my sweet time to respond.

I used to call her, but have stopped that and I think she is missing my attention. I feel like asking her out again.

She just sent me this text, while I am here at the office:

"howdy BigKuta. Just decided to say hi while I'm sitting here. Dude I need a tissue, my nose is runny cuz I have a little cold. Lol anyways I hope your school is going well!"

I don't really like texting since it feels impersonal, but I shot her this reply anyways

"hey, good to hear from you. My brother flys in today, so I get to leave the office early to go pick him up . Hope all is well with you. I'll call you sometime, haven't talked in a while"

Now the question..Should I even bother calling her? Leave her hanging for a bit? Or just call her once I am out of the office?

DJ bros let me know how to proceed.

 

[Igetit!]

So,are you interested in this girl,or do you just want to keep her as a friend?
Because this really doesn't seem to be that hard of a situation. If you want to be just friends,then keep doing what you've been doing. However,if you want to date this girl,you simply need to ask her out. Pretty simple really.

 

[BigKuta]

So,are you interested in this girl,or do you just want to keep her as a friend?
Because this really doesn't seem to be that hard of a situation. If you want to be just friends,then keep doing what you've been doing. However,if you want to date this girl,you simply need to ask her out. Pretty simple really.

Trying to get with her, or get some action at least haha

 

[BigKuta]

any suggestions?

 

[Dannyrt34]

Well since your tryin to get with her, never pass up opportunities. Give her a call whenever you feel like it. Make some small talk. Tell her you want to go out on (blank) day and what you plan on doing. If she says no she's dating that other feller, then you know to move on. If she accepts your invitation to the pants party, then you got a chance!