"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Sent a text to a chick I met a long time ago. Kinda funny

Rhizzle

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So, Back when I hadn't been broken up with my ex long, I met this chick one day while doing a curbside pickup at a restaurant.

I met her, we chatted while she was getting my food, and I was paying and such.

I had a little rapport, and she made some comment about having nothing better to be doing. So I asked when she was working again, and said I'd come back to see her.

She said, she was working the same time the next day. So I said ok, cool.

Next day, I decided to go back. I know it was generally a bad idea, but it was the only day that she had said she was to be there, so I went.

Well, sure enough, she was there, and I ended up asking for and getting her #. I WAS SOOO AFC then.

That was before I found this site.

Well, I txt'd her a few days later and said some blah about having met her there, and wanted her to call back. It was so AFC.

Well, she didn't call, and I didn't know for sure that it was a cell. So, a couple days later I called her and left a Vmail, SOOOO AFC.

Of course, no return call.

Well, that was prob May, or June.

I was back in there today for the first time since, eating lunch with a friend. I thought I saw her.

So, being dumb, and really not caring, I sent her a txt that said, "I think I saw you today....sexy".

(yea, I still had her # in my phone, I still got numbers that I DON'T call, from like 6 yrs ago. )

So, then, a while later, she txts back and says "who is this"

So, I was gonna post a topic and see if you guys had any opinions on how I could play this up a bit to have some fun.

Before I could post it, she calls me, FROM A DIFF #, DIFF area code, and I answered.

I didn't really know what to say. LOL.

I fumbled my words, told her I met her there once, and thought I saw her. She isn't there anymore, and is in school in a diff county away a little bit.

So, that kinda sucked. She still didn't really figure out who I am cause I couldn't really talk talk as I'm at work.

Anyway I can still talk to this chic or at least mess with her a bit? Not scary,but like, intrique her?, cause I don't think she even remembers me yet (getting her # and all).

Thanks for the thought.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kdnash82

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Sounds a bit stalkerish. Doubt any good will ever come out of this. Cut all ties and leave it alone. Stop expending worthless energy.
 

Rhizzle

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Any other comments?

Maybe my action was prompted by finding out today that my ex gf is about to move out of state and in with a guy.

It doesn't make it ok, and it shouldn't matter, but nontheless, it is what it is.

I never fancied myself a stalker, LOL, ridiculous.
 

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first format your f*cking post better. all those single lines make it hard to read.

second, your asking us if you should spend time trying to get some woman you met years ago, who is now in some other country, interested in you?

get your head out of your *ss dude. get out there and get yourself a REAL girl. start hitting on REAL women who you can actually take home and f*ck.

it is a total waste of your time playing some txt msg game with some chic in some other country who doesn't even remember you. i mean, wtf is going when 27 year olds are acting like 13 year old girls?

:crazy:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Its a sad day is what it is.

I'll try to format better.

BTW, I said COUNTY, not COUNTRY. She's like 40 minutes away, but diff area code.
 

joekerr31

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Rhizzle said:
Its a sad day is what it is.

I'll try to format better.

BTW, I said COUNTY, not COUNTRY. She's like 40 minutes away, but diff area code.
haha, well thats different then!

man i hate it when I over react and then it turns out its my fault for reading something incorrectly! :whistle:

anyway, my advice still holds. focus on chics face to face. or if you're going to keep txt her then quickly remind her who you are and cut to the chase of meeting up face to face.
 
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