"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Senior Don's i look for your responce first and i havent see any, look i need more feed back from you guy's its important. I've been studying the game for a while so i consider myself a Jr. Don and to my fellow Don Juans whats up watch the kid
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I dont want to sent any messages that im a player

Seniors it was a tough but exiciting night at the gym(what a weak workout). This is my 2nd week @ this new gym and my favorite girl finally gave me strong vibes. I don't believe in chasing so i didn't approach, however her body language said alot. ( like the movie Field of dreams If i build it she will come) My ? to the seniors im getting vibes from 3 other fine girls. Should i wait and establish something first with my main girl or let loose and start burning both sides of the candle.
 

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Re: I dont want to sent any messages that im a player

Originally posted by Beefcake
I don't believe in chasing so i didn't approach
im getting vibes from 3 other fine girls. Should i wait and establish something first with my main girl or let loose and start burning both sides of the candle.
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Thanks alot for the reply Hollowpoint thats what i like to hear. Marko is that all, if so i suggest 95% of this board should join me including you. Thanks Mark i won't let you down im going back to the bible. Tonight i made my approach with 2 different girls @ the gym..... ( The cake was smooth) Major eye contact, hair behind the ear both girls gave me positive vibes it was great. Now let the game began
 

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Thanks alot for the reply Hollowpoint thats what i like to hear. Marko is that all, if so i suggest 95% of this board should join me including you. Thanks Mark i won't let you down im going back to the bible. Tonight i made my approach with 2 different girls @ the gym..... ( The cake was smooth) Major eye contact, hair behind the ear both girls gave me positive vibes it was great. Now let the game began
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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