"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Beefcake

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Senior Don's i look for your responce first and i havent see any, look i need more feed back from you guy's its important. I've been studying the game for a while so i consider myself a Jr. Don and to my fellow Don Juans whats up watch the kid
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I dont want to sent any messages that im a player

Seniors it was a tough but exiciting night at the gym(what a weak workout). This is my 2nd week @ this new gym and my favorite girl finally gave me strong vibes. I don't believe in chasing so i didn't approach, however her body language said alot. ( like the movie Field of dreams If i build it she will come) My ? to the seniors im getting vibes from 3 other fine girls. Should i wait and establish something first with my main girl or let loose and start burning both sides of the candle.
 

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Re: I dont want to sent any messages that im a player

Originally posted by Beefcake
I don't believe in chasing so i didn't approach
im getting vibes from 3 other fine girls. Should i wait and establish something first with my main girl or let loose and start burning both sides of the candle.
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Thanks alot for the reply Hollowpoint thats what i like to hear. Marko is that all, if so i suggest 95% of this board should join me including you. Thanks Mark i won't let you down im going back to the bible. Tonight i made my approach with 2 different girls @ the gym..... ( The cake was smooth) Major eye contact, hair behind the ear both girls gave me positive vibes it was great. Now let the game began
 

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Thanks alot for the reply Hollowpoint thats what i like to hear. Marko is that all, if so i suggest 95% of this board should join me including you. Thanks Mark i won't let you down im going back to the bible. Tonight i made my approach with 2 different girls @ the gym..... ( The cake was smooth) Major eye contact, hair behind the ear both girls gave me positive vibes it was great. Now let the game began
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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