guys need youre tips here..What is the best message you can give to your myspace and friendster girls? and im also thinking to write a (testimonial/comments) what do you think is the proven theme or delivery that i should say? thanx guys
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
seneding message to myspace, friendster
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Usually I say something like, "So, xxxxx, I was bored the other night and came to your profile and thought, damn, she's hot, so i thought i would talk to ya and get to know ya." Sometimes they respond back, sometimes they don't. Most won't, but that's real life anyway.
The__Substitute
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don't try so hard it looks needy...... be simple and direct..... "Hey what's up? if you want to chat sometime send me your email and I will add you to msn"
something along those lines I find works well..... doesn't sound needy don't need an intro about yourself when they can simply look at your profile. They usually reply with their email then you can chat them up in private and do your thing.
something along those lines I find works well..... doesn't sound needy don't need an intro about yourself when they can simply look at your profile. They usually reply with their email then you can chat them up in private and do your thing.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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I just send a message like "Hey, whats your screen name? Their is something about you that is kind of cute". Most of the time I am sending these kinds of messages to girls whose walls are covered in comments from guys calling them hot and stuff, so the "kind of cute" works as a nice lil' neg hit. One or two out of every ten respond with an lol and the screenname and ifyou can get them to laugh during the first IM you are guarenteed a number.
When they respond saying "do I know you" which happens more than not, I send them back one saying "No, but since its the holiday season I figured I would be charitable and give you an early present by getting to know me =)". Usually I get the screename as a response to that.
Now I just hope you understand that myspace and friendster should just be a side thing, and not your game. If this is your entire mack, then you're not improving because the majority of stuff you should be learning here should be applied out in the real world and not on cyber space. Like I said above, this should be a little supplemental action so that when it is a Monday or Tuesday night and you have nothing to do you can go on a date with one of these chicks.
When they respond saying "do I know you" which happens more than not, I send them back one saying "No, but since its the holiday season I figured I would be charitable and give you an early present by getting to know me =)". Usually I get the screename as a response to that.
Now I just hope you understand that myspace and friendster should just be a side thing, and not your game. If this is your entire mack, then you're not improving because the majority of stuff you should be learning here should be applied out in the real world and not on cyber space. Like I said above, this should be a little supplemental action so that when it is a Monday or Tuesday night and you have nothing to do you can go on a date with one of these chicks.
THis is what im sending to all the girls in my space and beleive me 96percent of those chicks give me their ym or their mobile number..try it it works..
"Hey, Well I have to make this short since i youre being so bored with a lot of guys saying youre preety and blah balh balh... So ill try my best not mentioning you have sexy neck line and mysterious eyes..Any way i saw your profile and i think youre cool and were gonna jive well.. so what is your ym id so I could know you more and mabye have a cute friendship in the future...
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this is my myspace check my girls...http://www.myspace.com/36542491
"Hey, Well I have to make this short since i youre being so bored with a lot of guys saying youre preety and blah balh balh... So ill try my best not mentioning you have sexy neck line and mysterious eyes..Any way i saw your profile and i think youre cool and were gonna jive well.. so what is your ym id so I could know you more and mabye have a cute friendship in the future...
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this is my myspace check my girls...http://www.myspace.com/36542491