guys need youre tips here..What is the best message you can give to your myspace and friendster girls? and im also thinking to write a (testimonial/comments) what do you think is the proven theme or delivery that i should say? thanx guys
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
seneding message to myspace, friendster
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Usually I say something like, "So, xxxxx, I was bored the other night and came to your profile and thought, damn, she's hot, so i thought i would talk to ya and get to know ya." Sometimes they respond back, sometimes they don't. Most won't, but that's real life anyway.
The__Substitute
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don't try so hard it looks needy...... be simple and direct..... "Hey what's up? if you want to chat sometime send me your email and I will add you to msn"
something along those lines I find works well..... doesn't sound needy don't need an intro about yourself when they can simply look at your profile. They usually reply with their email then you can chat them up in private and do your thing.
something along those lines I find works well..... doesn't sound needy don't need an intro about yourself when they can simply look at your profile. They usually reply with their email then you can chat them up in private and do your thing.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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I just send a message like "Hey, whats your screen name? Their is something about you that is kind of cute". Most of the time I am sending these kinds of messages to girls whose walls are covered in comments from guys calling them hot and stuff, so the "kind of cute" works as a nice lil' neg hit. One or two out of every ten respond with an lol and the screenname and ifyou can get them to laugh during the first IM you are guarenteed a number.
When they respond saying "do I know you" which happens more than not, I send them back one saying "No, but since its the holiday season I figured I would be charitable and give you an early present by getting to know me =)". Usually I get the screename as a response to that.
Now I just hope you understand that myspace and friendster should just be a side thing, and not your game. If this is your entire mack, then you're not improving because the majority of stuff you should be learning here should be applied out in the real world and not on cyber space. Like I said above, this should be a little supplemental action so that when it is a Monday or Tuesday night and you have nothing to do you can go on a date with one of these chicks.
When they respond saying "do I know you" which happens more than not, I send them back one saying "No, but since its the holiday season I figured I would be charitable and give you an early present by getting to know me =)". Usually I get the screename as a response to that.
Now I just hope you understand that myspace and friendster should just be a side thing, and not your game. If this is your entire mack, then you're not improving because the majority of stuff you should be learning here should be applied out in the real world and not on cyber space. Like I said above, this should be a little supplemental action so that when it is a Monday or Tuesday night and you have nothing to do you can go on a date with one of these chicks.
THis is what im sending to all the girls in my space and beleive me 96percent of those chicks give me their ym or their mobile number..try it it works..
"Hey, Well I have to make this short since i youre being so bored with a lot of guys saying youre preety and blah balh balh... So ill try my best not mentioning you have sexy neck line and mysterious eyes..Any way i saw your profile and i think youre cool and were gonna jive well.. so what is your ym id so I could know you more and mabye have a cute friendship in the future...
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this is my myspace check my girls...http://www.myspace.com/36542491
"Hey, Well I have to make this short since i youre being so bored with a lot of guys saying youre preety and blah balh balh... So ill try my best not mentioning you have sexy neck line and mysterious eyes..Any way i saw your profile and i think youre cool and were gonna jive well.. so what is your ym id so I could know you more and mabye have a cute friendship in the future...
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this is my myspace check my girls...http://www.myspace.com/36542491