"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sending Weird Drunken Text Messages

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PeterCrouch

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Went out with the guys on a whole days worth of drinking and sent this stupid message!

Ok a lil backround so you understand some bits in the text message! Basically this is a girl who wouldnt get with me because of her exams and because her friend really liked me (lotti) and weve talked a lil about meeting up in the summer and we kinda (Reluctantly on my part) agreed to be friends untill then even tho i told her ill never be just friends with her...Father ted is a tv program and im not some kind of church goer! Shes a posh girl, especially compared to me!

This is the message...

"I got killed z weight on the head! We should of been amazing lovers! Friends is just pretend! summer is gonna be great but i dont wanna wait but thats bad of me! i like being bad its fun, u should try it, shh dont tell lotti, i admire ur love for her, father ted rules feck! posh girls are good in bed i will find out the truth and be judge of that haha u know its true!"

Haha! Worst most stupid message ever! What the hell am i supposed to do now?

p.s I took out some of the spelling mistakes i left!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Oooh, that's bad! I have sent and received messages like that, and it's never easy to overcome the awkwardness. However, the best solution is not to go into any explanation. Casually and briefly apologise, tell her you were drunk and from that point on pretend it never happened and never mention it again.
 
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LMFAO.

Dude, you made me spit pop on the keyboard. Yeah, that's bad ;)

Like Jariel said, don't make a big deal of it....God, I've done that in the past.
 
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Im thinking of just saying this...

"That night was the result of drinking since 10.30am so i warn you now im having another all dayer today and more drunken texts could be on the horizon"

Is this ok?
 
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"WARNING" "WARNING"

Never send sexual text messages while drunk

"WARNING" "WARNING"

I did it last week for the first time in a year, i told some girl she was hot and should come over thankfully she didnt i would not have wanted to have to chew my other arm off .
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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