"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sending mixed signals?

smoovedude23

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So there's this girl I met about week ago. We've chilled once the week I met her and once this week. She never texts me, but always responds to my texts with long open ended answers to keep the discussion going. I dont text her much though. Everytime I text her to come chill with me, she has come over. She lets me touch her you know the subtle touches on her thigh, face, stuff like that. And when we watch a scary movie or something, she will always pull my hand and put it on her leg, or hug up on me during scary scene, even held my hand one time. She touches me alot while were talking and when I touch her thighs and stuff she doenst move lets me keep my hand there. So what do guys think, is she feeling me or what?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cablecow15

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when i first read that she didn't text you , I figured i knew where this was going , but I was surprised , what you described when your together hints that you should try more , I mean what do you have to loose ?

touch her as much as possible , poke her , lightly pinch her , and yes lay your hand on her thigh when ever your in a comfortable position to do so
this touching , or "kino" as we call it her , is the best way to tell if shes interested , and if she is , its also a way to turn her on , and physical contact with a man can turn a girl on if shes in the right mindset
 

Pimp-sicle

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So what do guys think, is she feeling me or what?

Absolutely not! You have no chance....lol


Seriously dude, the only way you will know for sure is if you make a move. You can contemplate all you want, but until you man up and make a move, you will never know.

What are you afraid of?

And btw, the longer you wait, the more your going to over-analyze and talk yourself out of it.

She is sending you every sign in the book and if you still can't pull the trigger then you got bigger fish to fry.







PIMP
 

smoovedude23

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but see I dont know how much you should read into texting, when a girl doesnt text you but always responds to your text with long open ended answers. For example my homeboys girlfriend never texted him when he first met her, but she would always reply to his texts. He would ask this same question as to why she would never text, but know they are together and dating. I think some girls don't want to appear clingy especially if your a good looking guy, so they wait and hope you will text them first.
 

omega05

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to me action speaks louder than words. if she's letting you touch her and stuff then try to escalate it, see how far she's willing to go
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DonJuanabe

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Don't necessarily escalate where you are touching, but definitely go mouth to mouth with her. You must kiss her.
 
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