"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sending mixed signals?

smoovedude23

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So there's this girl I met about week ago. We've chilled once the week I met her and once this week. She never texts me, but always responds to my texts with long open ended answers to keep the discussion going. I dont text her much though. Everytime I text her to come chill with me, she has come over. She lets me touch her you know the subtle touches on her thigh, face, stuff like that. And when we watch a scary movie or something, she will always pull my hand and put it on her leg, or hug up on me during scary scene, even held my hand one time. She touches me alot while were talking and when I touch her thighs and stuff she doenst move lets me keep my hand there. So what do guys think, is she feeling me or what?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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cablecow15

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when i first read that she didn't text you , I figured i knew where this was going , but I was surprised , what you described when your together hints that you should try more , I mean what do you have to loose ?

touch her as much as possible , poke her , lightly pinch her , and yes lay your hand on her thigh when ever your in a comfortable position to do so
this touching , or "kino" as we call it her , is the best way to tell if shes interested , and if she is , its also a way to turn her on , and physical contact with a man can turn a girl on if shes in the right mindset
 

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So what do guys think, is she feeling me or what?

Absolutely not! You have no chance....lol


Seriously dude, the only way you will know for sure is if you make a move. You can contemplate all you want, but until you man up and make a move, you will never know.

What are you afraid of?

And btw, the longer you wait, the more your going to over-analyze and talk yourself out of it.

She is sending you every sign in the book and if you still can't pull the trigger then you got bigger fish to fry.







PIMP
 

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but see I dont know how much you should read into texting, when a girl doesnt text you but always responds to your text with long open ended answers. For example my homeboys girlfriend never texted him when he first met her, but she would always reply to his texts. He would ask this same question as to why she would never text, but know they are together and dating. I think some girls don't want to appear clingy especially if your a good looking guy, so they wait and hope you will text them first.
 

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to me action speaks louder than words. if she's letting you touch her and stuff then try to escalate it, see how far she's willing to go
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DonJuanabe

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Don't necessarily escalate where you are touching, but definitely go mouth to mouth with her. You must kiss her.
 
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