"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Semi-tested Kiss-close routine

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Ok guys, this "routine" is not fully field tested. I've done it 3 times and it worked perfectly 2 times. The 3rd time however i got the no-go. She had a bf so that might have caused it but I'm not sure. I still think it's interesting enough to share with everyone.

While doing this routine, it is essential that you already have initiated kino and keep a light and flirtatious tone. If not it will come of as incongruent.

When I'm talking to a girl and build comfort I ask her what traits her ideal boyfriend/lover should have in general. After whatever she tells me, I tell her my own criterias. Then i put a strong emphasis and importance on being honest and faithful. I ask her if she considers herself to be either. They ALWAYS say they are both, regardless of how true it is.. Then I follow up with asking where she draws the line as far as cheating goes. They usually say kissing. Then I ask what kind of kiss? I move in slowly and give her a small peck on the lips, like it's no big deal. "Would you consider this cheating?" When she says no,(most do) then you say "how about this?" and give her a kiss that lasts a bit longer. At this point you will notice whether she is receptive or not, and if she is you turn it into a fullblown makeout-session. If she cuts you off in any way or seem uncomfortable you just withdraw and acknowledge her answer and get on with the chat as if nothing happened.

I would like feedback from people who are willing to field-test this. I will keep doing it myself and see if i can improve it in any way. Feel free to make suggestions on how to improve this routine.

Any opinions on this technique would be highly appreciated!

Thx

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Haha, I would test this out on my ex, but we broke up for a reason :rolleyes:. Too bad I was a uber-wimp, I took her kissing another guy to heart, and I had every reason to hate her, not talk to her.

It's been over a year and a half since I bothered with her and I went on a date with her last friday. fukkk me hard.

We will see how this saturday goes though, working on perfecting CF&F :D

It sounds like good stuff though.
 

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Bump

Anyone tested this out yet? I've done it 5 more times now, and had 3 successes and 2 no-go's. Would be cool if any of you guys would try it and let me know how you do :)

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You don't need any routines to kiss a woman...

Whenever you feel you want to kiss her... and you have some kino, you are in her personal space and have some rapport going... just lean in and kiss her... If she refuses you'd still be better of than excusing and postponing it...

The second time it will be a lot easier...

Why complicate things when nature tells us a different story?
 
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