"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Semi-tested Kiss-close routine

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Ok guys, this "routine" is not fully field tested. I've done it 3 times and it worked perfectly 2 times. The 3rd time however i got the no-go. She had a bf so that might have caused it but I'm not sure. I still think it's interesting enough to share with everyone.

While doing this routine, it is essential that you already have initiated kino and keep a light and flirtatious tone. If not it will come of as incongruent.

When I'm talking to a girl and build comfort I ask her what traits her ideal boyfriend/lover should have in general. After whatever she tells me, I tell her my own criterias. Then i put a strong emphasis and importance on being honest and faithful. I ask her if she considers herself to be either. They ALWAYS say they are both, regardless of how true it is.. Then I follow up with asking where she draws the line as far as cheating goes. They usually say kissing. Then I ask what kind of kiss? I move in slowly and give her a small peck on the lips, like it's no big deal. "Would you consider this cheating?" When she says no,(most do) then you say "how about this?" and give her a kiss that lasts a bit longer. At this point you will notice whether she is receptive or not, and if she is you turn it into a fullblown makeout-session. If she cuts you off in any way or seem uncomfortable you just withdraw and acknowledge her answer and get on with the chat as if nothing happened.

I would like feedback from people who are willing to field-test this. I will keep doing it myself and see if i can improve it in any way. Feel free to make suggestions on how to improve this routine.

Any opinions on this technique would be highly appreciated!

Thx

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Haha, I would test this out on my ex, but we broke up for a reason :rolleyes:. Too bad I was a uber-wimp, I took her kissing another guy to heart, and I had every reason to hate her, not talk to her.

It's been over a year and a half since I bothered with her and I went on a date with her last friday. fukkk me hard.

We will see how this saturday goes though, working on perfecting CF&F :D

It sounds like good stuff though.
 

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Bump

Anyone tested this out yet? I've done it 5 more times now, and had 3 successes and 2 no-go's. Would be cool if any of you guys would try it and let me know how you do :)

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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You don't need any routines to kiss a woman...

Whenever you feel you want to kiss her... and you have some kino, you are in her personal space and have some rapport going... just lean in and kiss her... If she refuses you'd still be better of than excusing and postponing it...

The second time it will be a lot easier...

Why complicate things when nature tells us a different story?
 
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