Dust 2 Dust
Master Don Juan
Id rather fap than hook up with ugly and or fat women.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ye, once.Did some of you have a similar experience once?
You'll fvck up your d1ck if you keep that up too long. It's much better for your mind and body to have sexual engagements with a woman who desires to do that with you. Fapping over too long a period of time will fvck up your erections.Id rather fap than hook up with ugly and or fat women.
So her large voluptuous boobs "spring free" and they had a lot of life and bounce in them and that turned you off?Ye, once.
One 20 yr old chick had so huge tits when I unpackaged her that it turned me off. Like real porn star type.
Rly good body and face etc, but her boobs completely turned me off once they where out in the free.
That was a boner killer for me he he![]()
He ha ye...So her large voluptuous boobs "spring free" and they had a lot of life and bounce in them and that turned you off?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Bro sometimes they are too big and too heavy and hang down. That's why my preference is firm C or B's. Small and light enough that the skin won't stretch, and they are taught, lively and filled with energy.He ha ye...
They were so huge that I felt like I felt a need to swim to find her face lfmao.
They let's say fell down flat with not so much bounce effect. You get the picture I suppose.
Bras can hide a lot lol I her case they didn't look THAT big until the moment...
Nothing wrong with her otherwise. Really good looking HB9, but her "front grill" was too much for me.
Amen brother, I could not sait it better myself xDBro sometimes they are too big and too heavy and hang down. That's why my preference is firm C or B's. Small and light enough that the skin won't stretch, and they are taught, lively and filled with energy.
Ever considered that sometimes the package isn't what you thought it would be, until you do the unboxing and you find the true state of it?if you don't get hard around a specific girl...then why even bother?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Jesus, you actually went back for a second serving of rotten salmon.....twice!I had one with a smell like salmon that had been left out until it's rotting combined with poop.... Literally poop. That killed any shot for an erection had to get head. She had that the next time but the time after that it was gone. Suspect it was bacterial vaginotis and she got the medicine.
That's what I had at the time. But yea I did.Jesus, you actually went back for a second serving of rotten salmon.....twice!
[Insert dad joke here]That's what I had at the time. But yea I did.
Good point....... most opportunities i "passed" for whatever reason (pity, idleness etc.) , came back at a later point in life as "missed".I wouldn't tell me younger self this. Would agree if the woman is over 35.
But I think anything between 20-30 that is thin and decent looking, knock it out the park. I missed out on so many opportunities because the woman wasn’t “hot” enough. The media knows how to constantly bombard you with images to get brainwashed.
It happens..... fvcked a lot of chicks that i wouldnt call "hot", but a 5 and 6 need love too and as long as i am horny and they are good company, no problem. Meanwhile i had trouble with some "hot" women when they were just insufferable due to their behavior or outright boring.Did some of you have a similar experience once? I'm not worried because I get horny as hell when I'm with a hot woman, but I didn't like it that my body kinda went 'meh' on this girl because I wasn't attracted. Maybe I should have ended the date and just walked instead of thinking about getting some.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sometimes you need to to get in the right frame of mind. When I'm in that position and take whats there I become aware of additional possibilities.I hadn't had sex in two years since I'd had surgery & lost my fitness, and now that I'd gotten my fitness back I had a very eager girl obsessed with me, but I didn't like the look of her at all. So I didn't have sex with her, despite needing to break a dry spell. Just not worth it.
Only an incel fûcks a minger.