Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Selling yourself- Cv/resume has anyone told porkies

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Selling yourself- has anyone boosted their Cv/resume

I'm trying to get a career in the UK going. I'm a graduate from a decent uni but with a slightly lower classification than I wanted. This means it's very hard to get the interviews in the jobs I want. Plus I have no placement experience.

I'm a blank canvas :)

Can employers check to see what grades in high school/secondary school you got?

Can employers check your degree class?

Has anyone lied about their qualifications to get a job they wanted? A friend suggested boosting grades etc... :trouble: ?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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if you're going for a job with a big firm I should imagine they'd ask you to bring in your certificates...

edit: just an idea, but you could always get a second phone and create yourself a job - "oh he was a great employee, I'll be sorry to lose him to be honest" etc etc :p
 

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Yeah, I'd imagine a big co. would. There are a lot of agency recruited jobs on the web. I'm guessing, smaller co.s with no HR dept. The agencies don't care but the co.s do?

I'm not really stuck for references but that's an ok tip!

I'd really prefer to get a job without having to boost but what do you guys reckon?
 

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I don't think I got the memo. What exactly are "porkies"?

Last I remember, a "porky" is a fat girl. So why would you want to tell a fat girl anything if you're looking for a job? LOL.

I usually don't talk to porkies.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Employers ask for a printout of your academic transcript. This way, you cannot lie.

I have lied about some things though, like different work experience I have had (which I havent), and I got a great job doing so.

Prospective employers like in a person like yourself who has no previous experience in the field you want to work, they look for Travel, experience and references in a casual job you have done recently, double degrees, grades (which you dont have, but this is not as critical as it might seem for a lot of big companies), social events (like fundraising activities), and say you have played team sports and captained your team. Also say you coached a junior team at some point.
 
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