"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Selling yourself- Cv/resume has anyone told porkies

Lion

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Selling yourself- has anyone boosted their Cv/resume

I'm trying to get a career in the UK going. I'm a graduate from a decent uni but with a slightly lower classification than I wanted. This means it's very hard to get the interviews in the jobs I want. Plus I have no placement experience.

I'm a blank canvas :)

Can employers check to see what grades in high school/secondary school you got?

Can employers check your degree class?

Has anyone lied about their qualifications to get a job they wanted? A friend suggested boosting grades etc... :trouble: ?
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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if you're going for a job with a big firm I should imagine they'd ask you to bring in your certificates...

edit: just an idea, but you could always get a second phone and create yourself a job - "oh he was a great employee, I'll be sorry to lose him to be honest" etc etc :p
 

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Yeah, I'd imagine a big co. would. There are a lot of agency recruited jobs on the web. I'm guessing, smaller co.s with no HR dept. The agencies don't care but the co.s do?

I'm not really stuck for references but that's an ok tip!

I'd really prefer to get a job without having to boost but what do you guys reckon?
 

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I don't think I got the memo. What exactly are "porkies"?

Last I remember, a "porky" is a fat girl. So why would you want to tell a fat girl anything if you're looking for a job? LOL.

I usually don't talk to porkies.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Employers ask for a printout of your academic transcript. This way, you cannot lie.

I have lied about some things though, like different work experience I have had (which I havent), and I got a great job doing so.

Prospective employers like in a person like yourself who has no previous experience in the field you want to work, they look for Travel, experience and references in a casual job you have done recently, double degrees, grades (which you dont have, but this is not as critical as it might seem for a lot of big companies), social events (like fundraising activities), and say you have played team sports and captained your team. Also say you coached a junior team at some point.
 
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