"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Selling yourself- Cv/resume has anyone told porkies

Lion

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Selling yourself- has anyone boosted their Cv/resume

I'm trying to get a career in the UK going. I'm a graduate from a decent uni but with a slightly lower classification than I wanted. This means it's very hard to get the interviews in the jobs I want. Plus I have no placement experience.

I'm a blank canvas :)

Can employers check to see what grades in high school/secondary school you got?

Can employers check your degree class?

Has anyone lied about their qualifications to get a job they wanted? A friend suggested boosting grades etc... :trouble: ?
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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if you're going for a job with a big firm I should imagine they'd ask you to bring in your certificates...

edit: just an idea, but you could always get a second phone and create yourself a job - "oh he was a great employee, I'll be sorry to lose him to be honest" etc etc :p
 

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Yeah, I'd imagine a big co. would. There are a lot of agency recruited jobs on the web. I'm guessing, smaller co.s with no HR dept. The agencies don't care but the co.s do?

I'm not really stuck for references but that's an ok tip!

I'd really prefer to get a job without having to boost but what do you guys reckon?
 

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I don't think I got the memo. What exactly are "porkies"?

Last I remember, a "porky" is a fat girl. So why would you want to tell a fat girl anything if you're looking for a job? LOL.

I usually don't talk to porkies.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Employers ask for a printout of your academic transcript. This way, you cannot lie.

I have lied about some things though, like different work experience I have had (which I havent), and I got a great job doing so.

Prospective employers like in a person like yourself who has no previous experience in the field you want to work, they look for Travel, experience and references in a casual job you have done recently, double degrees, grades (which you dont have, but this is not as critical as it might seem for a lot of big companies), social events (like fundraising activities), and say you have played team sports and captained your team. Also say you coached a junior team at some point.
 
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