"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Everyone has some knowledge to share, a slice of life to speak of. I'm going to share mine with you, and hopefully learn a lot of things from you guys as well.

I was introduced to this site by a dear friend of mine el-nino, I read a couple of journals and was highly inspired, especially by one that speaks about confidence and being a alfer male, can't recall who posted it though. It was a good piece, which got me thinking... What is the core problem that prevents guys from reaching their full potential?

So for the next couple of days I'll be evaluating the problems which we encounter as guys and how they demean us from being our true self. Also coming up with solutions which can be implemented to get through them, and become what this world really needs right now-MEN.[email protected]
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hi.... I am new one out here...Just joined the forum and opened up this thread.... I want to know that what discussion is being done out here... And what are we supposed to post in here... I shall be grateful on your assistance... Looking forward for positive response and Thanking in advance!!
 

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I'm specifically going 2 discuss. How does one discover his true Self by over coming his ego.
 

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Read Eckhart Tolle
Watch the blueprint
Dunno if you and Nino have posssibility of downloading it up in Soweto(?)
Don't really have time to go indepth on anything.
Just push yourself, every single day.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Groupie said:
Hi.... I am new one out here...Just joined the forum and opened up this thread.... I want to know that what discussion is being done out here... And what are we supposed to post in here... I shall be grateful on your assistance... Looking forward for positive response and Thanking in advance!!
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