"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Everyone has some knowledge to share, a slice of life to speak of. I'm going to share mine with you, and hopefully learn a lot of things from you guys as well.

I was introduced to this site by a dear friend of mine el-nino, I read a couple of journals and was highly inspired, especially by one that speaks about confidence and being a alfer male, can't recall who posted it though. It was a good piece, which got me thinking... What is the core problem that prevents guys from reaching their full potential?

So for the next couple of days I'll be evaluating the problems which we encounter as guys and how they demean us from being our true self. Also coming up with solutions which can be implemented to get through them, and become what this world really needs right now-MEN.[email protected]
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi.... I am new one out here...Just joined the forum and opened up this thread.... I want to know that what discussion is being done out here... And what are we supposed to post in here... I shall be grateful on your assistance... Looking forward for positive response and Thanking in advance!!
 

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I'm specifically going 2 discuss. How does one discover his true Self by over coming his ego.
 

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Read Eckhart Tolle
Watch the blueprint
Dunno if you and Nino have posssibility of downloading it up in Soweto(?)
Don't really have time to go indepth on anything.
Just push yourself, every single day.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

Read more...

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Groupie said:
Hi.... I am new one out here...Just joined the forum and opened up this thread.... I want to know that what discussion is being done out here... And what are we supposed to post in here... I shall be grateful on your assistance... Looking forward for positive response and Thanking in advance!!
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