"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Self Realization: I have no game

RedZone

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If the girl happened to say "no" then you would know to move onto the next girl. It can't hurt to ask a girl to hang if nothing more it shows you want to get to know her. And if she doesn't want to to there will be plenty of other girls who will want to get to know you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Jokerlsk

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I need to get rid of my fear of rejection. I know I'm the problem. My own mind is the problem. I can't break through that wall. Rejection really gets the best of me. Even when asking my parents for cash, or if a friend can stay over. I have trouble asking the simplest qquestions and it's really just hindered me as a person in multiple aspects. Damnit
 

YAboi

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I have sussed out what one of your problems is. You talk to girls a lot and have a social circle but you are a girly man and you need to go to the gym. It will help you to start seeing yourself as someone who has balls and a penis and is sexual. You need some testosterone in your system. If you do this i guarantee you will thank me later. I myself am not a huge guy but I have done my time in the gym but because I am a hard gainer, I still remain slim with a well defined chest but average/medium sized biceps.I don't go to the gym anymore but it sure does help in building your masculinity.

Go to the gym !
Go to the gym !
Go to the gym !
Go to the gym !
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Go to the gym !


Oh yeah ....also read and apply what you see in this my thread ;

The Book Recommendation thread
 
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