"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Self Realization: I have no game

RedZone

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If the girl happened to say "no" then you would know to move onto the next girl. It can't hurt to ask a girl to hang if nothing more it shows you want to get to know her. And if she doesn't want to to there will be plenty of other girls who will want to get to know you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Jokerlsk

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I need to get rid of my fear of rejection. I know I'm the problem. My own mind is the problem. I can't break through that wall. Rejection really gets the best of me. Even when asking my parents for cash, or if a friend can stay over. I have trouble asking the simplest qquestions and it's really just hindered me as a person in multiple aspects. Damnit
 

YAboi

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I have sussed out what one of your problems is. You talk to girls a lot and have a social circle but you are a girly man and you need to go to the gym. It will help you to start seeing yourself as someone who has balls and a penis and is sexual. You need some testosterone in your system. If you do this i guarantee you will thank me later. I myself am not a huge guy but I have done my time in the gym but because I am a hard gainer, I still remain slim with a well defined chest but average/medium sized biceps.I don't go to the gym anymore but it sure does help in building your masculinity.

Go to the gym !
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Oh yeah ....also read and apply what you see in this my thread ;

The Book Recommendation thread
 
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