"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Self-Improvement

rightcross

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What do you all do for self-improvement? I've been trying to read as much as possible, literature, philosophy and self-improvement. But mainly I have been trying to get in shape.

In total I have lost 3 inches from my waist. Most of that in the last 7 weeks. I was doing things on my own for about a month, then found a 12 week transformation guide. Focused on bodybuilding and light cardio. After 3 weeks I joined an MMA gym. And have been going 5 or 6 days a week, multiple times a day if I am able to recover.

I have also been learning a lot about nutrition. I eat around 6 times a day, good protein every meal and only brown rice, whole wheat pasta and whole foods.

Here's the workout we did a week ago on Friday.

For an hour straight we traded off with a partner doing burpees and then carrying a 100 lb heavy bag around the gym. Up and down three sets of stairs and two long lengths of the gym. When we were finished - thought we were finished - our trainer got us to do 100 knee tucks and sprawls. Two guys puked, but most of us finished and continued to work on technique and ground n pound. After completing that workout I felt as though I had accomplished more than I had in a long time.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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rightcross said:
What do you all do for self-improvement? I've been trying to read as much as possible, literature, philosophy and self-improvement. But mainly I have been trying to get in shape.

In total I have lost 3 inches from my waist. Most of that in the last 7 weeks. I was doing things on my own for about a month, then found a 12 week transformation guide. Focused on bodybuilding and light cardio. After 3 weeks I joined an MMA gym. And have been going 5 or 6 days a week, multiple times a day if I am able to recover.

I have also been learning a lot about nutrition. I eat around 6 times a day, good protein every meal and only brown rice, whole wheat pasta and whole foods.

Here's the workout we did a week ago on Friday.

For an hour straight we traded off with a partner doing burpees and then carrying a 100 lb heavy bag around the gym. Up and down three sets of stairs and two long lengths of the gym. When we were finished - thought we were finished - our trainer got us to do 100 knee tucks and sprawls. Two guys puked, but most of us finished and continued to work on technique and ground n pound. After completing that workout I felt as though I had accomplished more than I had in a long time.
Try leangains.com
Eating 6 times a day is a pain in the a$$ & this guys ideas makes it redundant, with before and after photos of himself and clients to back it all up.
 

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rightcross said:
What do you all do for self-improvement? I've been trying to read as much as possible, literature, philosophy and self-improvement. But mainly I have been trying to get in shape.
Exercise is important, as is reading, educating yourself, and practicing your skills.

But probably my main component of self improvement is simply motivating myself to do the things that I know I should be doing, in all phases of life.
 
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