"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What do you all do for self-improvement? I've been trying to read as much as possible, literature, philosophy and self-improvement. But mainly I have been trying to get in shape.

In total I have lost 3 inches from my waist. Most of that in the last 7 weeks. I was doing things on my own for about a month, then found a 12 week transformation guide. Focused on bodybuilding and light cardio. After 3 weeks I joined an MMA gym. And have been going 5 or 6 days a week, multiple times a day if I am able to recover.

I have also been learning a lot about nutrition. I eat around 6 times a day, good protein every meal and only brown rice, whole wheat pasta and whole foods.

Here's the workout we did a week ago on Friday.

For an hour straight we traded off with a partner doing burpees and then carrying a 100 lb heavy bag around the gym. Up and down three sets of stairs and two long lengths of the gym. When we were finished - thought we were finished - our trainer got us to do 100 knee tucks and sprawls. Two guys puked, but most of us finished and continued to work on technique and ground n pound. After completing that workout I felt as though I had accomplished more than I had in a long time.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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rightcross said:
What do you all do for self-improvement? I've been trying to read as much as possible, literature, philosophy and self-improvement. But mainly I have been trying to get in shape.

In total I have lost 3 inches from my waist. Most of that in the last 7 weeks. I was doing things on my own for about a month, then found a 12 week transformation guide. Focused on bodybuilding and light cardio. After 3 weeks I joined an MMA gym. And have been going 5 or 6 days a week, multiple times a day if I am able to recover.

I have also been learning a lot about nutrition. I eat around 6 times a day, good protein every meal and only brown rice, whole wheat pasta and whole foods.

Here's the workout we did a week ago on Friday.

For an hour straight we traded off with a partner doing burpees and then carrying a 100 lb heavy bag around the gym. Up and down three sets of stairs and two long lengths of the gym. When we were finished - thought we were finished - our trainer got us to do 100 knee tucks and sprawls. Two guys puked, but most of us finished and continued to work on technique and ground n pound. After completing that workout I felt as though I had accomplished more than I had in a long time.
Try leangains.com
Eating 6 times a day is a pain in the a$$ & this guys ideas makes it redundant, with before and after photos of himself and clients to back it all up.
 

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rightcross said:
What do you all do for self-improvement? I've been trying to read as much as possible, literature, philosophy and self-improvement. But mainly I have been trying to get in shape.
Exercise is important, as is reading, educating yourself, and practicing your skills.

But probably my main component of self improvement is simply motivating myself to do the things that I know I should be doing, in all phases of life.
 
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