"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Hockey Playa

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I have a pretty busy schedule, but some nights i have off i usually go to the gym or just end up staying home and watching tv. Recently my ex has a new bf, and this always gives me good motivation to fuking improve myself. Is there anything i can do otehr than Going to the gym (which i already do), to improve my appearance/self. Please dont say Join a club, or go talk to strangers
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i think u can start by getting closer to God, exercise a lot,meet friend... and to meet friends u need to go out there and actually talk to them. it's not that hard, on the basketball court or after a hockey game just talk to them about the game or about a game that was on tv.. or anything. Take time to really know urself...
 

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Well If you wanna improve your health/ appearance... Try eating better. Overwheight? Diet. Skinny? Eat more and bulk. Dont put crap into your body and make sure you get evrything you need.

I started taking a multivitamin and now I drink almost a gallon of water a day and I feel great.
 

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yes i take multi vitamins, and drink alot of water (how much do we neeed per day btw), i just cant seem to find a way to get sufficient vegetables and meat into my diet. Im kind of picky and the only meat ill eat is lke chicken, ham, bacon sausage lol. what vegetables do you suggest for snacks
 

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yes i take multi vitamins, and drink alot of water (how much do we neeed per day btw), i just cant seem to find a way to get sufficient vegetables and meat into my diet. Im kind of picky and the only meat ill eat is lke chicken, ham, bacon sausage lol. what vegetables do you suggest for snacks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Try Getting A New Wordrob.

Try Styling Your Hair In A Diff Way.

Go Get Some Good Smelling Cologne. No Matter How Bad You Look, If You Smell Good Youll Always Get Complimented By Women.

Eating Healthy Makes You Feel Healthy Which Always Increases Stamina, Performance, And Confidence.

Strike Up Conversation With People.

If You See A Girl Look At You Look Back And Give A Nice Warm Smile That Will Make Her Melt.

Including All These With Your Work Outs At The Gym Will Produce The Dream Guy To Every Womens Dream...Ofcourse That Is If Your Game Is Good Too.

Good Luck
 
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