"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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self-improvement?

Hockey Playa

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I have a pretty busy schedule, but some nights i have off i usually go to the gym or just end up staying home and watching tv. Recently my ex has a new bf, and this always gives me good motivation to fuking improve myself. Is there anything i can do otehr than Going to the gym (which i already do), to improve my appearance/self. Please dont say Join a club, or go talk to strangers
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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i think u can start by getting closer to God, exercise a lot,meet friend... and to meet friends u need to go out there and actually talk to them. it's not that hard, on the basketball court or after a hockey game just talk to them about the game or about a game that was on tv.. or anything. Take time to really know urself...
 

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Well If you wanna improve your health/ appearance... Try eating better. Overwheight? Diet. Skinny? Eat more and bulk. Dont put crap into your body and make sure you get evrything you need.

I started taking a multivitamin and now I drink almost a gallon of water a day and I feel great.
 

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yes i take multi vitamins, and drink alot of water (how much do we neeed per day btw), i just cant seem to find a way to get sufficient vegetables and meat into my diet. Im kind of picky and the only meat ill eat is lke chicken, ham, bacon sausage lol. what vegetables do you suggest for snacks
 

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yes i take multi vitamins, and drink alot of water (how much do we neeed per day btw), i just cant seem to find a way to get sufficient vegetables and meat into my diet. Im kind of picky and the only meat ill eat is lke chicken, ham, bacon sausage lol. what vegetables do you suggest for snacks
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Try Getting A New Wordrob.

Try Styling Your Hair In A Diff Way.

Go Get Some Good Smelling Cologne. No Matter How Bad You Look, If You Smell Good Youll Always Get Complimented By Women.

Eating Healthy Makes You Feel Healthy Which Always Increases Stamina, Performance, And Confidence.

Strike Up Conversation With People.

If You See A Girl Look At You Look Back And Give A Nice Warm Smile That Will Make Her Melt.

Including All These With Your Work Outs At The Gym Will Produce The Dream Guy To Every Womens Dream...Ofcourse That Is If Your Game Is Good Too.

Good Luck
 
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