"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Self-improvement journal Oct/24/10

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Solomon keeps telling me to start an self-improvement journal to get back my focus in life(I guess). Honestly I have so many interests that I want to get involved with. so starting monday october 25. I'm going to at least explore my opprunities. I'll start with the first two (theres more)
1.Learning BJJ

2. Learning Guitar

You know what Solomon has been kicking me in my ass. and I at least owe to myself and him (since he's been following me) to do something to improve myself. I don't have a lot of money right now to pursue my hobbies but you know what, fcvk it. I got to start somewhere. Theres a place close to where I live that does BJJ it's $100 a month but worth it.Learning the guitar will be a lot more difficult wish me luck next post tomorrow.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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bjj is brazilian jiu jitsu. It is a martial art/fighting technique
 
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well martial arts and guitar are both things that you can enjoy for yourself AND will impress the ladies. kills 2 birds with 1 stone.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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