"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Self-improvement journal Oct/24/10

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Solomon keeps telling me to start an self-improvement journal to get back my focus in life(I guess). Honestly I have so many interests that I want to get involved with. so starting monday october 25. I'm going to at least explore my opprunities. I'll start with the first two (theres more)
1.Learning BJJ

2. Learning Guitar

You know what Solomon has been kicking me in my ass. and I at least owe to myself and him (since he's been following me) to do something to improve myself. I don't have a lot of money right now to pursue my hobbies but you know what, fcvk it. I got to start somewhere. Theres a place close to where I live that does BJJ it's $100 a month but worth it.Learning the guitar will be a lot more difficult wish me luck next post tomorrow.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bjj is brazilian jiu jitsu. It is a martial art/fighting technique
 
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well martial arts and guitar are both things that you can enjoy for yourself AND will impress the ladies. kills 2 birds with 1 stone.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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