spidersense
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alright, self hipnosis, I bought some books on it, has anyone tried this stuff? What do you think about it?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Self Hipnosis
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
I have a similar thread running on this sort of stuff in anything else.
I've tried the sub. hypno tapes to no avail. Turns out research discovered that you can't hear them at any level.
However, subs on flashing/disguised images, repetition filtering etc dual aural messages DHEA, well think they are useful.
Apparently general hypno. works for a third of those who undertake it. however understand most therapies offer similar outcome statistic. And talking through issues with friend is frighteningly close to these figures too.
Another big factor is the hypno. therapist. The best have much higher success rates, the reasons for this are complex but include reputation, insight, advanced use of language, rapport building abilities and the ability to motivate.
I make up my own affirmation tapes, two messages, one for left and right played together. I also have a program on my PC that flashes up sub. messages.
I am very judgemental and my brain tends to filter out anything that it knows is bullsh1t, so I have to use subdifuge to shove in new beliefs etc.
I'm really interested in any independant research on this sort of sh1t, anybody point me to it?
I've tried the sub. hypno tapes to no avail. Turns out research discovered that you can't hear them at any level.
However, subs on flashing/disguised images, repetition filtering etc dual aural messages DHEA, well think they are useful.
Apparently general hypno. works for a third of those who undertake it. however understand most therapies offer similar outcome statistic. And talking through issues with friend is frighteningly close to these figures too.
Another big factor is the hypno. therapist. The best have much higher success rates, the reasons for this are complex but include reputation, insight, advanced use of language, rapport building abilities and the ability to motivate.
I make up my own affirmation tapes, two messages, one for left and right played together. I also have a program on my PC that flashes up sub. messages.
I am very judgemental and my brain tends to filter out anything that it knows is bullsh1t, so I have to use subdifuge to shove in new beliefs etc.
I'm really interested in any independant research on this sort of sh1t, anybody point me to it?
Desdinova
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Don't really have the time to point you to any material. However, what I read in this particuar magazine (years ago, can't remember the name) is to record a bunch of affirmations, and mix it at low volume with instrumental music. I had the equipment to do it years ago and made myself a tape.
MrCode
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Don't worry Alpine, you aren't all that judgemental because everyone's subconcious will reject things that aren't held up by their internal beliefs. That is just how our minds work.
I'm reading an excellent book call "Psycho-cybernetics" and in there they talk about repetition being able to have the same effect as hypnosis. So just because you can't be hypnotized doesn't mean you can't change your deepest beliefs. Either way any kind of big change like that takes a while. According to the books it takes at least 21 days for new beliefs to really start to take hold. So you need to be persistent. I highly recommend this book.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Alpine
Master Don Juan
There are two book I'm aware of on the subject. One is Superlearning which I read many years ago. Don't quote me on this but I believe a lot of the research in that Lazanov has been discredited.
Also What to say when you talk to yourself, nice book, more than just how to tape affs too.
The dual channel recording stuff I think is called DHEA and is by one of the NLP gurus.
On some level I suppose it makes sense that it works. If you don't let your brain think anything else by bombarding it with this stuff, it's either going to work or send you crazy. (The Chinese knew what the were doing)
Also What to say when you talk to yourself, nice book, more than just how to tape affs too.
The dual channel recording stuff I think is called DHEA and is by one of the NLP gurus.
On some level I suppose it makes sense that it works. If you don't let your brain think anything else by bombarding it with this stuff, it's either going to work or send you crazy. (The Chinese knew what the were doing)