"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Self Enpowerment!

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My Class was watching a movie named Schindlers List its about a man who rescured alot of jews in the second world war. in the movie there was a sean when he said something very intresting along the lines of "power dose not come with killing some one, power comes with knowing you have every right to get your revenge, yet pardoning your victim... that got me thinking...

the next time i saw a hot girl walking down the street i walked up to her, and got her number i cant belive i did it.. all my friends were impressed,... yet i took that number and ripped it up then tossed it... a few of my other friends looked at me as if i was mad, searching the area for the ripped up pices, (pathetic) after i did this the first time i started doing it again, and again, and again. it came to the point where i perfectied my game when it comes to meeting girls, cus i wasnt trying to get with them, i was just trying to have a conversation. weather those numbers were real i dont know, i dont care to know, it felt empowering... i fet confident... and now when an even hotter girl comes along.. im not as scared as i use to be..

sure i had dougths, in my mind there was allways that little voice that said "what the hell are you doing!" .. but later on my mind says.. you know i could have had her, psh .. big deal, theres plenty more.. and thats my attuide...

im not that good at explaing things.. hopefull you all can make some sence of this.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So uh.. let me get this straight..

You catch a big beautiful fish and throw it back cuz you know there are other fish? Why not catch the fish, keep it, eat it, sleep with it or whatever and move on to catching the next fish?

Thumbs up though for your attitude.
 
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Actually this is a very old and beneficial technique. Buddhists do something similiar, by spending months (sometimes years) creating intricate models, tapestries etc and then burning them. It allows them to relinquish attachment and leaves them with a sense of freedom and, indeed, self empowerment.

By throwing away girl's numbers, you do risk the chance of missing someone very special, but it will also empower you enough to walk away from any woman. It takes and builds a LOT of confidence.

Personally, I don't have that level of confidence yet. :)
 
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you must take that first leap of faith my friend. it is allways the most difficult. the others are a pice of cake.
 
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