"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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why does this site focus on self-improvement? all I have ever heard, and a lot of what I have witnessed is women going for men who have jack **** going for themselves. the women are attempting to remake the man into something better. this is why a lot of women end up with gang banger losers, trying to "change" (improve) them.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Igetit!

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That`s true,but a lot of information on here is good.I`ve only been a member on here for 4 days,but I`ve read some incredible posts on here.Women like gangbangers and bad boys because they like drama.They like a challenge.And yes,they try to change and improve the bad boys they date.They cant change them,but they think they can.But you know what?If by some miracle they were able to change/improve a bad boy,Do you know would happen? They`d dump him.Crazy,huh?
 

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cloneofstenyhoyer said:
why does this site focus on self-improvement? all I have ever heard, and a lot of what I have witnessed is women going for men who have jack **** going for themselves. the women are attempting to remake the man into something better. this is why a lot of women end up with gang banger losers, trying to "change" (improve) them.
that's not what I see
 
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