Self-defense!!!!!

[ROOKIE OF THE YEAR]

What is the best self-defense in martial art?

I'm am a 19 years old guy who was teased and got beat real bad when I was at 8th-9th grade for a long time. In fact, I've hardly get any respect from anybody ever since elementary. So from 10th grade until now, I've have hardly talk to anyone. I igured that say nothing and do nothing is better than being teased and made fun of. In fact, I wanted to avoid critism so bad that hardly even talk at all, so my grammer is pretty bad now.
Ever since I went to college, I thought it will be all over. Then a girl that I was interested in made things a little worse. This attention ***** pretended to be interest in me, and tricked me making all her friends think I am obsessed with her. And I still am being made fun by other people, like at work for example.
I felt like a big loser, and really wanted to put an end to this, even if it meant risking my life.
What should I do? I am weak and skinny. I was think about learning self-defense. So does anybody here know what is the best type of self-defense?

 

[ROOKIE OF THE YEAR]

I cant live like this no more. You have no idea how torturing my life is. Everytime I talk to someone, is like really paranoid to me.
I expect matial art will put an end to this.

 

[TheRelic]

Heh, my post did a Houdini.

Anyway, martial arts are useless unless done religiously for a decent time.

Eat like a horse, follow the abundance of info here on bulking, and take up boxing.

Confidence booster, problem solved.

Personally, I think much of your problems could be solved by other material on this site.

 

[manuva]

Definitely boxing. One of the greatest confidence boosters of all time. Work at it religiously, and go to a gym if you want to increase your size as well.

 

[Austizzle]

Just lift weights until all of the other guys look puny. Intimidation is the best way to keep peace. As long as your weapons are bigger than their weapons, they won't mess with you. Think of the Cold War for example .

 

[spider_007]

any matrial arts will raise your confidence. And that's what it's all about.

 

[Flyer]

Tell me. Just what do you plan to do with your new knowledge of martial arts.

Punch everyone who teases you? no.. thats not the point of martial arts.

The only reason it'll improve your inner game is because.. you can stand up for yourself and IF they wanna get physical, you won't mind.

 

[diablo]

Try a search next time, Daniel-san.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...d=247046&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/search...d=247048&sortby=lastpost&sortorder=descending