Do you always wonder why you fall in love so easily? Do you get angry when criticized? Do you strike back when insulted? All of these problem indicate a lack of self-control.
Self-control is the ability to become a master of your thoughts. Most people run around like chicken's with their heads cut off when they are faced with a problem. They allow their emotions to control them. If you let external forces control you, then you are not in control of yourself and other people can easily manipulate you and take advantage of you. Successful people do not allow themselves to be controlled by other. Do you want to be successful? Read on.
In order to develop self-control, you need to have a firm grasp of what your emotions mean and you need the ability to recognize these emotions and remove them. It is all in how you think. It has nothing to do with getting girls, and yet it has everything to do with it. When your girl gives you sh*t, you feel angry, or you get scared, or whatever. What you do is recognize the feeling immediately and change it to a positive. Tell yourself you are the best motherf*cker alive at that moment. Take control of who you are, and do not react to her, only acknowledge her, and then go right back to doing what you believe is correct.
If you have a negative thought, you turn it into a positive. You feel every emotion that runs through you and you remain confident, enthusiastic, and poised. You tell me you don't respect someone who can remain calm and confident in all situations, you better believe that is a man of high self-control. Nervous ticks will go away and other people's opinion's will brush off of you because you know you are the sh*t despite what anyone else says.
I am still learning how to master this art, but I believe I have already undergone some change. I would have days where I felt depressed. Now whenever depression begins to sink in, I turn around the thought and think about how great life is. If I think about a girl I was caught up on I turn off the thought and get back to work.
You can literally control what thoughts go in and out of your brain. You become non-reactive, and get what you want because you completely aware of how you feel at any given moment. Give it a try, anyone can do it!
Self-control is the ability to become a master of your thoughts. Most people run around like chicken's with their heads cut off when they are faced with a problem. They allow their emotions to control them. If you let external forces control you, then you are not in control of yourself and other people can easily manipulate you and take advantage of you. Successful people do not allow themselves to be controlled by other. Do you want to be successful? Read on.
In order to develop self-control, you need to have a firm grasp of what your emotions mean and you need the ability to recognize these emotions and remove them. It is all in how you think. It has nothing to do with getting girls, and yet it has everything to do with it. When your girl gives you sh*t, you feel angry, or you get scared, or whatever. What you do is recognize the feeling immediately and change it to a positive. Tell yourself you are the best motherf*cker alive at that moment. Take control of who you are, and do not react to her, only acknowledge her, and then go right back to doing what you believe is correct.
If you have a negative thought, you turn it into a positive. You feel every emotion that runs through you and you remain confident, enthusiastic, and poised. You tell me you don't respect someone who can remain calm and confident in all situations, you better believe that is a man of high self-control. Nervous ticks will go away and other people's opinion's will brush off of you because you know you are the sh*t despite what anyone else says.
I am still learning how to master this art, but I believe I have already undergone some change. I would have days where I felt depressed. Now whenever depression begins to sink in, I turn around the thought and think about how great life is. If I think about a girl I was caught up on I turn off the thought and get back to work.
You can literally control what thoughts go in and out of your brain. You become non-reactive, and get what you want because you completely aware of how you feel at any given moment. Give it a try, anyone can do it!
