"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Self-Confidence issue.....

FL BOY

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I feel very insecure about my looks, its the only thing bringing me down from being tha DJ(although some of you might say its my mindset if im worrying so much bout my looks). For example in my math class this HB7.5 great body, always talkin to me and rubbing my legs and shoulders and sayin how im the sexiest whiteboy shes seen.Also ever since this school year started girls have started conversations with me in the lunch line if I gave them one look. But, when I was in 6th-7th grade I was not seen as good-looking .I know ive grown up quite a bit(10thgrade now)but I havent really tried to make myself look better so I dont see why I would be hot now. Here is my pic although its not a great one, you can still get an idea, my hair is shorter now way too much on the top in this pic...help a future DJ out....

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=BRAUA80&key=ELU

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=BRAUA8O&key=ELU



PS-No, Im not the baby!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LuckyDevil6

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Whats the problem?? a girl thinks ur hot now... and they are talking to you, i see no problem.

You may be insecure, but imbrace it and stop acting like a retard. In order for others to think you are hot, you have to think it first yourself.

PS. the picture didn't work for me :(
 

JH6

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you have decent women hitting on you? Go for it don't be dumb. Don't worry about your looks, it seems you already have a fish on the line.
 

FL BOY

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Yea, I noticed its not working even though it's the exact link...use the 2nd link it works.
 

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dude.. stop being so insecure.. and you're not ugly
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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