"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Self-Confidence issue.....

FL BOY

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I feel very insecure about my looks, its the only thing bringing me down from being tha DJ(although some of you might say its my mindset if im worrying so much bout my looks). For example in my math class this HB7.5 great body, always talkin to me and rubbing my legs and shoulders and sayin how im the sexiest whiteboy shes seen.Also ever since this school year started girls have started conversations with me in the lunch line if I gave them one look. But, when I was in 6th-7th grade I was not seen as good-looking .I know ive grown up quite a bit(10thgrade now)but I havent really tried to make myself look better so I dont see why I would be hot now. Here is my pic although its not a great one, you can still get an idea, my hair is shorter now way too much on the top in this pic...help a future DJ out....

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=BRAUA80&key=ELU

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=BRAUA8O&key=ELU



PS-No, Im not the baby!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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LuckyDevil6

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Whats the problem?? a girl thinks ur hot now... and they are talking to you, i see no problem.

You may be insecure, but imbrace it and stop acting like a retard. In order for others to think you are hot, you have to think it first yourself.

PS. the picture didn't work for me :(
 

JH6

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you have decent women hitting on you? Go for it don't be dumb. Don't worry about your looks, it seems you already have a fish on the line.
 

FL BOY

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Yea, I noticed its not working even though it's the exact link...use the 2nd link it works.
 

sinner

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dude.. stop being so insecure.. and you're not ugly
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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