"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Self-Confidence issue.....

FL BOY

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I feel very insecure about my looks, its the only thing bringing me down from being tha DJ(although some of you might say its my mindset if im worrying so much bout my looks). For example in my math class this HB7.5 great body, always talkin to me and rubbing my legs and shoulders and sayin how im the sexiest whiteboy shes seen.Also ever since this school year started girls have started conversations with me in the lunch line if I gave them one look. But, when I was in 6th-7th grade I was not seen as good-looking .I know ive grown up quite a bit(10thgrade now)but I havent really tried to make myself look better so I dont see why I would be hot now. Here is my pic although its not a great one, you can still get an idea, my hair is shorter now way too much on the top in this pic...help a future DJ out....

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=BRAUA80&key=ELU

http://www.hotornot.com/r/?eid=BRAUA8O&key=ELU



PS-No, Im not the baby!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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LuckyDevil6

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Whats the problem?? a girl thinks ur hot now... and they are talking to you, i see no problem.

You may be insecure, but imbrace it and stop acting like a retard. In order for others to think you are hot, you have to think it first yourself.

PS. the picture didn't work for me :(
 

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you have decent women hitting on you? Go for it don't be dumb. Don't worry about your looks, it seems you already have a fish on the line.
 

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Yea, I noticed its not working even though it's the exact link...use the 2nd link it works.
 

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dude.. stop being so insecure.. and you're not ugly
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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