"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Self-conciousness

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disfunktional

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Guys,

I've always been pretty self-concious, not generally in the looks department, but in what I say and do and how I portray myself to people. I have managed to live with it pretty well but I've just about had enough of it. Just started seeing this new girl and went over there on the weekend for sex (and other stuff, but that was pretty much what we both knew was going to be happening) and I just couldn't get it up!!! Couldn't believe it, a big ****ing kick in the teeth! That has NEVER happened to me before! But I had all this **** going through my mind worrying about performance etc etc. So my ego is pretty battered at the moment :) I need to get rid of this ****, I know logically in my mind that there is nothing wrong with me but the thought patterns are like automatic, and I can't shift them out of my head.

Anyone had any experience with getting over this? What about hypnotherapy?

TIA
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I hate hypnotherapy, it's so easy to discredit or give credit to, depending on the way you are thinking.

I get over it by getting into game. We have to do it, we have to do it, we have to do it now. "think sexy, think sexy, think sexy". "Yeah baby. "Oh I love the way you move, the way you smell, taste, ohh yeah, touch me baby.

To me, whenever I feel the shrivelage coming, I tell myself to get dirty.
 
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haha i sometimes get self concious and every now and then go really red and get hot.

Yesterday at work i got this lass giving me strong EC while i was serving her and i started going red. It got really bad as others were there and i felt really self concious and got redder. i had to hide for a few minutes it got so bad.

Insecurities got the best of me and i couldnt give EC, was red and hot and getting sweaty and was rushing and messing things up my god it was f*ckin horrible.

but i suppose it builds character ;)
 
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