“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Self-conciousness

disfunktional

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Guys,

I've always been pretty self-concious, not generally in the looks department, but in what I say and do and how I portray myself to people. I have managed to live with it pretty well but I've just about had enough of it. Just started seeing this new girl and went over there on the weekend for sex (and other stuff, but that was pretty much what we both knew was going to be happening) and I just couldn't get it up!!! Couldn't believe it, a big ****ing kick in the teeth! That has NEVER happened to me before! But I had all this **** going through my mind worrying about performance etc etc. So my ego is pretty battered at the moment :) I need to get rid of this ****, I know logically in my mind that there is nothing wrong with me but the thought patterns are like automatic, and I can't shift them out of my head.

Anyone had any experience with getting over this? What about hypnotherapy?

TIA
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ethnomethodologist

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I hate hypnotherapy, it's so easy to discredit or give credit to, depending on the way you are thinking.

I get over it by getting into game. We have to do it, we have to do it, we have to do it now. "think sexy, think sexy, think sexy". "Yeah baby. "Oh I love the way you move, the way you smell, taste, ohh yeah, touch me baby.

To me, whenever I feel the shrivelage coming, I tell myself to get dirty.
 

johnmich

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haha i sometimes get self concious and every now and then go really red and get hot.

Yesterday at work i got this lass giving me strong EC while i was serving her and i started going red. It got really bad as others were there and i felt really self concious and got redder. i had to hide for a few minutes it got so bad.

Insecurities got the best of me and i couldnt give EC, was red and hot and getting sweaty and was rushing and messing things up my god it was f*ckin horrible.

but i suppose it builds character ;)
 
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