"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Seize your power

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Seize your power

Did you know that you're the most powerful person on earth?

Yes, you. And me. And everyone else. Most do not realize this, but everyone is the most powerful person in this world... at least to them. And that's what really matters at the end.

You have all the power you need. Why don't you use it?

People let stuff happen to them like it's given, like someone ordered and they have no choice but obey.

That is not reality. You can choose. You can pick your friends, the girls you will give the time of the day to, your actions. You have unlimited power, the power of empathy. It boils down to choosing if you want to care or not.

Seize your power!!! Use it!

The woman you are pining over is giving you a bad time? Seize your power!

Your friends are depressed douchebags who only tear you down without bringing you any happy moments? Seize your power!

Your family gives you a bad time? Seize your power!

Earning sh1t money? Want a better job? You know what to do!

Use it! Do not be ashamed. People are too busy trying to control you to see that you'll do whatever suits you and their efforts will be fruitless. Maybe they will have the joy to realize, like you did, that you're the only person on earth whose actions you can control.

We are the ones who can choose for ourselves, and if we do not someone else will. Do not let that happen!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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THAT'S RIGHT...tell em...yeah!
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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:cuss: YEAH!!! Seize your power!!! GRAB YOUR FVCKIN' NUTZ!!! Use it! YAAAAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!! :cuss:
 

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
:cuss: YEAH!!! Seize your power!!! GRAB YOUR FVCKIN' NUTZ!!! Use it! YAAAAHHHHHHHHHH!!!!! :cuss:
WTF? :crackup:

:D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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djbr said:
Seize your power

Did you know that you're the most powerful person on earth?

Yes, you. And me. And everyone else. Most do not realize this, but everyone is the most powerful person in this world... at least to them. And that's what really matters at the end.

You have all the power you need. Why don't you use it?

People let stuff happen to them like it's given, like someone ordered and they have no choice but obey.

That is not reality. You can choose. You can pick your friends, the girls you will give the time of the day to, your actions. You have unlimited power, the power of empathy. It boils down to choosing if you want to care or not.

Seize your power!!! Use it!

The woman you are pining over is giving you a bad time? Seize your power!

Your friends are depressed douchebags who only tear you down without bringing you any happy moments? Seize your power!

Your family gives you a bad time? Seize your power!

Earning sh1t money? Want a better job? You know what to do!

Use it! Do not be ashamed. People are too busy trying to control you to see that you'll do whatever suits you and their efforts will be fruitless. Maybe they will have the joy to realize, like you did, that you're the only person on earth whose actions you can control.

We are the ones who can choose for ourselves, and if we do not someone else will. Do not let that happen!!
This is literally Docs' Cause and effect theory.... nice try though. no kudos for you. Sorry if im being rude

smoke
 

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MissionX said:
This is literally Docs' Cause and effect theory.... nice try though. no kudos for you. Sorry if im being rude

smoke
Not rude at all... I have no intention of being exclusive/original or whatever, as most of the stuff I say was already said 0941840 times on this forum. The only thing is that they may be said in another way, so I still contribute with my view of things. Still, I never read this Docs' post. I will check it out.

Docs said:
Not really.
The C&E Theory is more focused on the uncontrollalble.
So it seems to be complimentary to what I said.

I see so many people complaining about things that they can change, hoping someone/something will magically put everyting into place for them. I was guilty of that in the past too. It's good to remember that we CAN take the control of our own lives!
 

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mmm..really gd shyt u posted
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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